So if you had to choose between these two , to be with you forever , witch one would you choose , the girl that has the prettiest face and really sexy body, or average girl with perfect personality? And why?
Beauty doesn't go very far if they're a shitty person. And unless a person is completely beta, I don't know many people at all that will put up with a pretty girl with a piss poor attitude.
There's a girl I went to high school with that is easily a perfect 10. In fact, she actually got into doing physique modeling/competitions in the past year or so. However, she's been single for a while now and attributes it to other things, like her schedule. While I do imagine she has a busy schedule, she's also picked up a bit of a sour personality to go along with things too.
So yeah, I think her personality and outlook on things really spoils the package. Guys that want to legitimately be with her won't put up with the attitude and the guys that will, only stick around long enough to try and get in bed with her. She doesn't let that happen, but this dynamic with guys she is having is creating a bit of a vicious circle. Decent guys don't put up with her, shitty ones do long enough to make a sex attempt, she ends up only attracting the shitty ones, loses more faith in guys each time... rinse and repeat.
TL;DR Personality completes the package, so I'd choose the average with good attitude. Guys may have a bad rep with these things, but we like a good personality just like girls do.
well, i'd rather have a beautiful girl with a great personality because to me, they go hand in hand. Whenever i see a "sexy" girl with that arrogant look, i immediately run away from her. But when i see an "ugly" girl have a good personality, i run even faster.
Good looks and good personality aren't mutually exclusive, you know. In my experience, pretty girls are often nicer people than average, probably in part because a pretty woman has a lot of advantages in life.
I know this one guy in particular that most people would consider really hot and good looking. I did in the beginning, too. But then I got to know him a little better. He's an arrogant, elitist, whiny little brat. His mommy and daddy pay for everything. I saw him ruin his iphone once on purpose just so that his parents would buy him the new model. I think his personality is absolutely revolting, and it has ruined his good looks for me. Whenever I see him now, I feel nothing but disgust for him, and he's not even close as good looking to me as he was before I got to know him. When I didn't know him, I would have thought he was a 9. Now he's a 0, a total loser. Also, there are a handful of guys I would have considered average or slightly ugly before I got to know them on a personal level. But once I figured out how amazing they are personality-wise, they became so much better looking to me. So your personality can definitely make up for your average looks, as well as make you more beautiful/handsome. I voted B, obviously.
Well boyfriend said looks are for a hookup not a relationship. He said a personality is what makes a relationship fun and exciting. I think personality is more important because beauty fades over time but personality is forever.