I've never been asked out by a guy not even to a dance. I'm almost 17. I'm quiet but I think I'm a nice sweet person yet no guys seem interested in me. I will see random boys look at me at school so I smile at them but they never come up to talk or want to get to know me. They just sit there and look or sometimes they smile back. THATS IT. They're not that shy. They talk and flirt with other girls. I don't really wear any makeup to school so could that be why? I'm not really popular either. Be honest is it because of the way I look?
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You have nothing to worry about in the looks department. You are a very attractive young woman. I think what's holding you back is your shyness.
Let me tell you a story from a dudes point if view. Now im 24 but I remember back to when I was in high school I was a bit of a goofball, call me the class clown. Especially my first two years. Anyway there was this shy girl who was in a lot of my classes and needless to say I had it in for her bad. The problem was whenever I tried to talk to her it was difficult to get a conversation going because all she would give me was short answers that back then I didn't know how to work with. So I just figured she wasn't into me which I thought sucked because she was beautiful. Unfortunately nothing ever came from that because I gave up. It wasn't until literally 2 years ago that I met up with her and she told me that back then she was into me and wanted me to ask her out (oh come the hell on!!! Haha)
Anyway so you can see how a certain level of shyness can be detrimental in the world of dating. Especially in the early teens. I suggest you make an effort to be more outgoing towards men you are interested in because I guarantee you there's quite a few who are probably interested in you.0