I met this really awesome guy. He's GORGEOUS. he's very athletic (skinny yet muscular build ) he's very kind and seems to think I have a really great personality. I am not the prettiest girl in the world though. Not bad looking but no hot by any means. I don't feel like I would be the type of girl that he could be interested in. is personality tossed to the side when it comes to looks? Do I stand a chance?
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Looks are a very important *initial* factor. It's like a painting. Personality is like a fluid animation. Ultimately, that matters more (over time). A lot of very pretty girls would make poor girlfriends, perhaps because they think their beauty is itself the prize. They might have needs, but don't do much for the guy, maybe due to all the guy attention they get from their looks alone.
Yes, you have a chance. Much of attraction occurs as a result of your behavior (though admittedly looks tend to matter more to guys than girls).0