I've decided to create an entirely new one helping men understand whether a girl/woman likes them - or at least their level of attraction/interest.
Some of these signs might seem ridiculous, but they're actually fairly accurate, so hold your fedoras!
P.S I would literally walk out my front door naked to go on a date with this girl ...
A general consensus amongst men (and some women) is that our female counterparts are confusing, misleading, hard-to-read and aloof. They shouldn't be. The real reason why they might come across like this is because you don't understand them or possibly refuse to understand them.
I've spent an age listening to my sister and her "guy problems". For 10 years she comes to me seeking advice on how to flirt with a guy she likes, how to avoid/get rid of a guy she doesn't and what a guy means when he says "I'm not interested" (lol). I'm not saying I understand women completely, but I like to think I've got an advantage. I've seen her flirting with guys (yeah, it's not a good experience) and I've seen how she acts when she's not interested.
P.P.S and this one .... Effy!
I'm going to hand down 2 great things you can do to gauge a woman's interest level. These 2 things are so simple, yet demand a reasonable level of confidence.
Tip #1: When you're in a bar or a club, grab a drink and walk around going from group to group. At each group raise your glass and cheer "Awesome night euh? Party on!" and clink your drinks with them all. As soon as that's done go "Enjoy the rest of your night!" and move along. If a girl likes you in that particular group, she'll call out and ask for you back.
My experience: I actually went out on my own a couple weeks ago because I really needed to have some fun but all my friends were finishing their exams. I thought fuck it let's try it out. I went through 3-4 groups before having a cute-ish girl pull be back into their group to chat. I spoke to her a bit, grabbed her number and told her I had to catch up with some friends and that I'd keep in touch.
Tip #2: This is probably the easiest one of the 2, but it works just as well. Get talking to a girl at a bar/club. At one point ask her name. If she tells you her name and then asks yours, she's at the very least interested. Girls who aren't interested will just tell you their name and that's that.
My experience: I haven't had the oppurtunity to use this, but after reading about it I remembered a couple girls back on a night out at Uni had done it ... missed chances I think!
Besides all the hair fiddling, eye-lid batting and lip-biting, women will make it EASY for you if they like you. They'll give you subtle hints that you've got to notice and expect you to lead the discussion to number-taking and possible dates in the near future. Like I've said many times before, "A woman who likes you will put herself in your orbit".
So yeah, I hope you enjoyed the read and I really do hope someone tries one of the tips above!
Peace!
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