The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack

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The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack

Seriously. I'm not exaggerating when I say there's one trait above all that makes girls insanely hot.

No, it's not about looks. And it's not about how great she is in bed. Or her job or career.

A girl who is this one thing makes her hotter than any other girl:

A Conversationalist

A girl who know's how to talk to other people, keep a conversation going, and knows how to introduce herself is hotter than anyone else.

If a girl know's how to tell stories and ask questions, I don't have to worry about how awkward it will be when I introduce her to my parents or friends, because she knows how to keep the conversation going.

She know's how to keep people and herself entertained. She can talk about herself, ask questions about things or people, and tell stories.

The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack

On long car rides, long flights, and anywhere we're at, or on the phone, we can keep each other entertained and learn about each other. I know she's not just an empty shell with makeup on that spouts out phrases only when she's partying like "ITS LIT" or "TURN UP".

Imagine The Polar Opposite

All guys have been there. When we're on a date or texting and we're putting in a lot of work to keep the convo going and the girl isn't talking or asking questions. It feels so one sided. Thats because it is one sided.

Then she may or may not sit there on her phone or stare around awkwardly.

This isn't entirely girls fault, but simply evolutionary. Girls don't have to know how to talk or keep a conversation going, or think hard about an opener to get with a guy. Because guys make the first move.

Men are supposed to be the starters and leaders. The ones make the first move. Men are supposed to be the one to introduce themselves first, to text the girl first, to say hi first, etc.

The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack

Girls never have to figure out what gets a guys attention over text, or how to keep a conversation going to keep a guy, or any part of the science behind talking like most guys have to figure out.

In online dating, girls have hundreds of guys message them. And without any real work to their profile. They aren't competing for the guys attention. The guys are competing for the girls attention.

Guys however, have to know exactly how to put themselves in the best light in their profiles, they have to think of witty openers, they have to plan out the science to keep a conversation going, and they have to think of the best way to ask a girl out that will get her to answer yes to a date.

Most Girls Don't Know How To Talk Or Keep a Conversation Going Or Tell Stories.

They shut off in social situations if they aren't 110% comfortable.

The best way for a hot girl to separate herself from all the other hot girls is to be a conversationalist.

If a girl can't handle a one on one conversation with me, I know she'll never be able to work a room or be the talker in front of my friends or family, and that's a major turn off.

The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack

Any girl can put on make up, dress well, and be "arm candy". Very very very few girls can be conversationalists.

I personally think the best measurement for intelligence is self awareness.

Only The Most Self Aware People Know How To Put Their Thoughts Into Spoken Words.

It takes brains to know how to transform their random mashup of thoughts or ideas and put them into words eloquently for other people to understand.

If you aren't a natural conversationalist, you can become one with practice. This goes for both guys and girls. Practice taking your thoughts and writing them down into clear to understand words. Practice opening up to the other sex first. Learn to become comfortable talking to random people and put yourself in situations where you have to practice talking.

Do you agree or disagree with what I'm saying? Let me know in the comments.

The #1 Skill That Separates The Hottest Girls From The Rest Of The Pack
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