Why guys are confusing to us.

Guys. Wow, they are so confusing. But, the guys think that they did nothing wrong. They think that us girls speak guy. We don't really speak guy. I know I know, a guy means what he says. Us girls just have millions of questions popping up in our minds after just being greeted by a guy. Guys are a whole other story.

Guys wonder why we find them confusing. They think that we are complicated. Sure, we can be at times but guys do confuse us. But how? Let's see.......

1.) They don't share their feelings with us.

2.) They go after the girls that are already taken.

3.) You try to get in a relationship with them, they just run the other direction.

4.) We are from different planets.

5.) Men are "Visual Creatures" - meaning that they all look for their sugar mama/baby mama/ you get the picture.

6.) All they care about is food, beverages, sports, their hair, muscles, boobs, sex, the car they drive, basically anything but a serious commitment.

7.) Do the weirdest/creepiest things to get our attention instead of just coming up to us and say hi.

8.) They don't reveal any personal info.

9.) Change the subject when we want to talk about relationships.

10.) Send us f***ing mixed signals.

11.) He looks like he likes you but the next day he gets a girlfriend but still ....idk.. but why??? idk

12.) Some men are cheaters, assholes,jerks,etc.

13.) They don't care about our feelings.

14.) They are into you one minute and then forget you the next.

15.) When you get us pissed off, us girls will give you the silent treatment. You might not even notice this because your to busy sitting on your coach watching porn.

16.) They want to keep us guessing?!?!?! WTF!!!!

17.) They tease us to make themselves cool.Really??!

18.) Guys think that we are bunch of air heads when we know how to solve our own problems. We aren't that stupid..actually we aren't stupid at all.

19.) Getting in between two girls who are best friends. Not a smart move.

20.) They are interested but don't take the chance to get us. You just let us slip out of your hands. WHY?!?!?!

If I continue this than I will stay up all night to write this lol :). But, we are from different genders. That's why we confuse each other. It's okay... but us girls know more than you think.

What Guys Said 96


  • 1.) Guys share feelings to the extent they are aware, unless they've learned not too because women actually don't like it.

    2) Uh, way less then women do in my experience.

    3) Only if they don't want a relationship with you. This one confuses some young women, so lets spell it out - men want to have sex with more women then they want to date. So if he's 'running', you're in the 'sex' but not the 'dating and sex' category for him.

    4) meaningless

    5) ... seems to be two things. Men are visual.

  • The reason why you get so confused is because you THINK gender defines what we think.

  • To 15.), Silent Treatment = you are not willing to share your feelings because you're too busy trying to hurt the guy you're with. Thanks for the hypocriticism with 1.). If you don't like this done to you, why would you do it?

    Anyways, what I wanted to add originally was that YOU'RE getting confused because you're attempting to apply generalized behavior on half of the planet's population. Of course you won't understand the individual that way. Gender does not define your personality. Period.

  • guys are confusing because they don't know what they want. Guys are very temparamental, they confuse themselves with alternatives and forking paths all the time.

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What Girls Said 46

  • Here are a few you forgot!

    21) Guys have a fragile ego.. Slightest criticism can totally through them off. That is why most guys can't handle a girl beating them in a game or be smarter than them .

    22) Guys say the don't want a needy, clingy woman where in fact that is exactly what they want and not know it.

    23) Most guys can be incredibily self centered, cruel, and insensitive toward women.

  • this article is extremly sexist not all guys are like this and I'm sure guys think the same thing about us girls..

  • I don't agree with this. The only guys who do this are jerks.

  • let's get more women write against this sort of misandric stuff. and save our men's energy:) - as I gather from looking at the comment thread below, men have unnecessarily overreacted to this article.

  • another regurgitation of misandric stereotypes...

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