Girls: Would you avoid looking at a handsome guy?

loxagos_snake
Alright, before I go a single word into my question, I want to state that I'm not fishing for compliments or surrounded by vanity. I'm actually foregoing treatment for GAD and this issue really weighs me down: I can't get a girlfriend for the last two years.

I've had thousands of conversations with my doc, female and male friends and parents and I just can't find closure. Everyone tells me I am indeed handsome -some female friends say I'm more than that-, I've had a girlfriend for two years and it's not like she's the only girl I ever kissed. Even male friends tell me I look good and I should get over it, but I'm a man of facts. I just don't see all those lusty looks that other guys get, or never overheard a girl group talking about me. I do have the occasional eye-to-eye moments, I just don't see this happening spontaneously.

My female friends tell me it's because I'm not confident, but I'm not buying this. Yeah, it's not like I'm perfectly OK with myself but I don't walk around with my head hanging, or speak in a low voice. And aside that, confidence is something abstract; for example, I don't care how confident a girl is, if I like her, I'll flirt with her. What's your opinion?
Girls: Would you avoid looking at a handsome guy?
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