Tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday?

[Anonymous]

So tomorrow is my boyfriend's birthday. He is the type of guy that is really cute, and therefore a lot of girls are attracted to him. I am a little worried that tomorrow on Facebook, some girl will try to post something flirty on his wall. I looked at his birthday last year, and girls did post "happy birthday" on his wall, but it was completely appropriate. As far as I know, no girls have posted anything inappropriate on his wall for as long as I've been seeing him, except for this Asian girl "Lilly". Lilly posted on his wall about a month ago, it was one of those "TBH" things, and what she posted wasn't' flirty or anything along those lines, but she put like six smiley faces. I got a little upset so I showed it to my friend "Adam" and he told me it sounded like a friend post, except he was a bit thrown off with the amount of smiley faces. I have told Adam about my worries, and he told me that if Lilly tries to post anything inappropriate, he will personally message her. He also told me if girls try to post anything inappropriate he will "take care of them" for me.
I'm still very worried. Help?

[Natattack21]

Well, first off, why are you worried about other girls on your boyfriends page… saying 'Happy Birthday'?
Your boyfriend says that he will take care of the people that could say 'inappropriate things'.
You are too jealous of what you already have. Stop being paranoid, because i really doubt YOUR BOYFRIEND will flirt with someone on the internet, where EVERYONE (including you) can see.

I say get over it, instead of acting like someone thats in a relationship, and someone that wants to show your SO that you are mature, you act very immature.

[Asker]

No, you misread... my friend Adam said that he will "take care" of anyone who tries posting flirty things on his wall, not my boyfriend...

[Natattack21]

oh well, think of it this way. Your boyfriend chose you and not the other girls out there. don't lose yourself, because you think something will happen, when it really won't.

[Asker]

I hope you are right.

[sweetgirl23]

Dont mind those girls. They can greet ur boyfriend however they want. The thing you need to focus on is how you guys will celebrate his birthday.. Last month was my bf birthday and i gave him his usb (which was in my possession for over a month) and told him sorry for the delay. Then when we got home, i txted him to watch the video i created for him before he go to sleep. The nxt day he picked me up in school and kissed me on the lips without saying anything. That i know was his way of showing 'thank you..' :)

[62893]

don't worry, its just a birthday... i doubt anyone will post anything flirty.
plus, if they do. its the girl's actions... not your boyfriend. your boyfriend isn't the one flirting.

[62893]

thanks for MH :)

[Asker]

Your welcome!
Nothing ever happened. No one had written anything bad on his wall. XD

[62893]

thats good :)

[Ryan_Hansen]

Just don't make it seem like you are jealous. I wouldn't call myself ugly and I've had problems with girls flirting with me during a relationship. If he is actually committed, he will ignore flirty posts on his profile. If he responds with flirty things, I would be worried.

[koibito]

He chose you. Trust him to continue choosing you, regardless of what other girls are trying to do.

[ruthiekinns]

They can post all they want but at the end of the day, the girl he likes enough to make his gf is YOU. At the end of the day, if he didn't like you over any of them, he wouldn't be with you. He chose you for a reason. Now adays, a lot of guys dont get into actual relationships and the fact that he did with you means he really likes YOU and you have nothing to worry about. Dont worry and just enjoy his birthday with him; he is yours afterall :)

[Themoonlitsky]

Don't worry about it. If you trust your boyfriend, he won't care; so you shouldn't worry.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Trust him and stop being insecure