Why do a lot of black guys date fat and/or ugly white women?

Question

I am a black guy. And I would like to know this.

Unless they are famous, they only mess with ugly white women. And even when some of them are rich and famous, they still mess with ugly white women.

Now, I don't have anything against interracial dating, but get something that looks about something. Don't just date a white girl because she is white.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Um first of all let me say that everyone needs a little something. just because you aren't attracted to someone doesn't mean they don't deserve to be loved or f***ed. there will always be another guy who likes it. "one mans trash is another mans treasure." also black guys tend to like curves if you're referencing to weight and I guess don't mind heavier chicks.

im half black and I'm not famous but I've been with a lot of white girls and many of them have been curvy but none fat. I like the big ass but I like it tight as well. I like small butts too. its all good. lol I'm just not into extremes of anorexic or obese. not my style but some of my friends (of different races) like chunky girls or girls I'm just not attracted to. its nothing to get annoyed about or concerned about dude. if you don't like them, don't date them.

ive seen TONS of white guys with white girls who I wouldn't usually look twice at so I'm sure some guy is looking at you and your girl (if you have one) thinking "nah..." to each is own. also did it ever occur to you that they might like them as people despite what they look like? crazy concept I know...

dont be mistaken though. plenty of us love white girls who are not obese or what many people see as ugly. all the white girls I've been with have been really cute or beautiful by conventional standards.

Bizzaro_Elmo · Accepted Answer

Some of the guys are shallow and complete bastards using the women because some of the fat and/or ugly white women have normal fat and/or ugly woman insecurities.  Plus head from a fat chick is IN-frickin'-credible!  Would I choose head from the average fat chick over Halle Berry once-in-a-lifetime-head?   Any day of the week and twice on Sunday!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to have a white friend that dated this lame guy.  I call him lame because he had nothing going for him (no job, car, even lived with another woman).  But that was OK because he didn't need transportation or money because she would do it all for him.  She didn't see him taking advantage of her, she thought she was just holding it down for her man lol.  I think he saw her as an easy target and used her. I've seen other relationships like that and even asked another guy why he messed with ugly fat white girls and he basically said the same thing: to use them for money.  I think the difference is a fat ugly black girl is less likely to give up her money and be docile than a fat ugly white girl.

coolgurl09 · Accepted Answer

Haha...I thought me and my sister were the only people who noticed that! However, we figured it out. It's because the fat and ugly white are the rejects from their white community. White guys usually don't date fat girls and the black guys that date them don't mind because they usually run to drop down to their knees for a black guy in a heartbeat. Black guys for the most part who date white women do it because white women don't question their man and are scared to confront or talk back to them and don't mioind supporting their man if he is jobless and broke. Not against interracial dating either but the black guy and white girl is usually done for a reason.

kdizzleforizzle91 · Accepted Answer

From what I've noticed, black guys date white girls on the heavy side who have low self-esteem. They make the girls feel pretty and have sex with them, and use love to get the girl's money and get her to buy him stuff. I'm not saying you would... that's just what I see with most.

shortie · Answer

Yeah, I know a girl called E**** whos going out with a pretty decent lookign black guy...and she's a really rather chunky white girl...Chris Rock said it best in 'Kill the messenger' a black dude will go out with ANY white girl...dunno why, guess they feel as if its alsmost a status symbol, teh way all British footballers feel their wives have to be stick thin and look plastic, again its a a case of the female as a satus symbol, I think...although some men really do just prefer larger women...

Standingpretty · Answer

well, maybe they look pretty to them. What's "ugly" to some can be Hot to someone else. Huh well at my school, there's a lot of interaccial dating and usually the girls are the super hot preppy girls. I think that since we have only 10-15 black people at our school of over 2000 people they think it it's harder to get a black guy, so, they date them because their automatically harder to find/have.

Combat-Crash · Answer

I don't know. I've seen very odd couples in my time. Where I work I see it on a daily basis. I just think of it this way. Different people have different reasons for the things that we do, and we aren't always going to understand those reasons, but then again we don't have to. I just let people do what they do. It's not hurting me so I leave it be.

Anonymous · Answer

i know that black guys love curvy girls, but I know what you mean, I see some black guys with some VERY ugly girl, and by ugly I mean, fat, messy, oily hair, disgusting t-shirt, whatever you want, its a whole pakage of ugliness... I don't get it... loll I can't answer your question but I just wanted to say that you're not the only one to be choked by this.

stktder · Answer

Beautiful skinny white woman usually know their wealth in society. White women who are on the heavy side should I say, have little self confidence and feel that they have no self wealth. Even though this is all a bunch of crap in women's minds, the heavy white woman feels that all they are worth is to be with a black man.

HereKittieKitty · Answer

Yikes! Unfortunately it’s because many Black men hate themselves. From talking to other Black men I know, it’s like having a badge of honor. As long as she’s white, even if she looks like a sea creature, they’ll take it. They usually end up with white mens rejects or white girls that are ran through. Also, those rejected white girls usually will take care of a man with no job, no goals and no aspirations because they desire to beloved. It’s sad all the way around. You don’t have to like it, but it’s the truth.

KimmyB · Answer

I've seen what you're talking about, but honestly, I've seen a lot of hot white girls with black dudes, too, so I don't think it's ONLY the situation you're talking about. But that's just my experience :o)

Anonymous · Answer

this is insulting, won't you grow out of this word "ugly women" for gods sake, and why do you think allll the black guys must have the same taste as you? they might have been appreciating what you can't appreciate, I think the guy that goes for what others recommend for him is a moron, we all have certain standards, and if your standards tell you that women you don't like how they look like don't deserve to live, then I really feel very sorry for you.

Anonymous · Answer

i get what you're saying

i see a lot of skinny black guys with chunky white girls

i think those girls are just their type

love comes in all shapes, sizes and colors

and not all of those fat girls are ugly

that's like saying all skinny girls are beautiful

20Questions · Answer

Nah bruv I disagree. Of the four white girls I have dated, 3 of them weren't fat at all and were 'hot' by any guy's standards. And I wasn't with them for the sex.

SweetestSinxxx · Answer

The black guys who do that aren't really the best looking ones or best catches overall, so they're just dating whoever is on their level, just in a different race.

Normal white girls date normal black guys too though so whatever.

katiesmuff · Answer

I sure don't consider myself ugly and I am currently and have in the past dated black men.  I have seen what you are talking about, but I think I have seen more what I would consider good to great looking white women with hot black guys.

Anonymous · Answer

because they can't settle for an attractive white woman who has standards. In their mind, as long as they're white, they don't care how she looks, as they get a chance to improve their gene pool.

They're dating them just cause they're white, doesn't matter how they look, as long as they're white.

Anonymous · Answer

A friend of mine brought this to my attention not that long ago. I would say that most of the women in a black man/white woman relationship are unattractive to me, but I have seen a several exceptions. I just assumed that it was here and not everywhere. Maybe its that beauty is in the eye of the beholder thing or maybe they just want a white woman. I have no idea.

Dela1111 · Answer

I think that is basically how it is, they only date white girls because they're white.  And the girls only date black guys because no white guy will date them.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe it isn't because they're white.  Maybe they actually like these women.  Not every man is so shallow.

arsenal25 · Answer

idk what you are talking about , most black guys at my school or the ones I know of date white girls but they are pretty. The only time I saw a black guy date a white ugly girl when he was ugly and fat himself

MarioVaz · Answer

Bro, its not actually about color or race, its more about what can come by and get by easily. give soem credit to those so called ugly women, they need booty too.

IMakeBarbieJealous · Answer

Its all they can get. You see the same thing with other races. Check out the homely Asian girls that dorky white guys end up with lmfao

Orion · Answer

they might have been hot before they started dating. If you love someone you don't dropp them because they get heavy. Also the concept of ugly and pretty can be completely subjective.

Why do a lot of black guys date fat and/or ugly white women?

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