Phone sex with crush?

[Anonymous]

My crush and I recently had phone sex. I like him a lot but we've only been taking for a week or so and yet we know so much about each other. I have shared some deep secret things with him and I feel it has brought us closer. But is it okay that I do have phone sex with him as "flirting" even though I am dating someone.

[NerdInDenial]

It's a little more than flirting. Essentially, you are thinking sexually about a different man and acting on it despite being in a relationship. Some will argue that is cheating. Ideally, you should break up with your boyfriend and be with your crush.

[Asker]

I am actually dating a girl, but she hasn't been communicating with me as much as he has.

[NerdInDenial]

Oh, my bad. Well, you should fix the relationship with your current girl first.

[Asker]

And what should I do about the guy. Make him be just friends, cut him off? He is a senior high school and I am a sophomore

[NerdInDenial]

If you intend on sticking it out with your girl; yes, you should definitely cut it off with your male crush. If you are leaning towards I'm done with the current relationship, it's only fair for her that you let her know the truth about how you feel.

[LoKo_One]

Personally is wouldn't have phone sex or really to much sexually unless you guys become a couple or if it's a friend you've had for a while who is a friend+ Benefits. If you have only known him for a week it's kinda odd that you had phone sex with him

[iminfunbegins]

Hell yes have it and this NOTHING like calling a phone sex line. You're not a sex worker that is being paid to be on the phone are you and he knows you right? Don't ever listen to that mess. Phone sex is intimacy. You like him and he likes you and the fact that you're doing this together excites each other. Do it, be open and be wild and the more hot you are with it the more he'll like you.