How do I get his attention over snapchat or message?

[Anonymous]

I've met a guy that's friends with my ex and we've been talking. But it's like he snap chats me a few times then when he's satisfied (no I haven't sent him dirty photos) he goes to sleep at about 11:45pm. I know it takes him about 45 minutes to get to work in the morning but he just goes. How do I get him to stay for a bit more? And how do I flirt properly? Thanks

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+1 y

He's been there for me since the first day I knew him (while I was with the ex/ his friend). He's probably surprised me more than the boyfriend at the time.

[femmeme]

There is nothing you can do besides sending nudes. He doesn't like you, he just wants to see you naked and jack off to you. Yes, you could try and flirt and send feisty messages, but then you'll be leading him on and in his head he's thinking you'll send him nudes. So, basically, talk to people who actually want to talk because they enjoy hearing what you have to say, not because they are talking your panties off.

[kittykatg]

Send him something a little but more suggestive. Nothing pornographic or dirty if you're uncomfortable with it but maybe a lower cut shirt or more focus on your boobs.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[kittykatg]

Of course. Definitely don't send nudes if you're underage or want to have an actual relationship. Sorry I just noticed you're age. Be safe out there kiddo, good luck!

[Asker]

I'm 18 in a few months... Haha yeah I get you. I won't send any nudes as its just not my style :/ I don't really know how to play it, do I snap chat him or wait until he snaps me? And as I'm going to his work tomorrow, and my ex will be there as they work together, do I play it cool? Do I wear a skirt or leggins? I have no clue what to do :/ they work at morrisons by the way.

[kittykatg]

Play it cool and wear whatever you feel sexiest in. I'd wait till he snaps you and just snap back something flirty.

[Asker]

Okay, thank you!!

[kittykatg]

Thanks for most helpful. Best of luck and just play up your confidence by wearing what you feel best in. It'll work great.

[NZDSTR]

Don't do that you show him something with boobs he'll be expecting the clothes to come off sooner than later. It's more exciting wondering and waiting for the chance. The less you show the more he'll want it !!

[NZDSTR]

And going with your ex s friend is pretty low like it's a bit of an insult to your ex and if the guy who your snap chatting is good friends with your ex still that might be a problem. But it seems you're young so that might be acceptable in your age group but when you get older. Ex s friends are a no go zone for guys out of respect for the friendship !

[NovemberJoseph]

He just wants nudes.

He doesn't care about you, or he would have the time to say goodnight.

Decent guys wouldn't even talk to a girl that's their friend's ex, so you know he's not loyal already. He just wants nudes.

To answer your question, you get his attention with shower pics, cleavage, and any other methods of showing skin.

[Execu]

Why don't you just text? I would feel like more of a dick if I just went to bed without saying goodnight. Be flirty and just ask him to hangout instead of texting and not knowing.

[Asker]

I gave him my number a few days ago but he hasn't text me, only really spoken over snapchat. As he needed time to think as I'm his friends ex and we only broke up less than a month ago. But he says that he's tempted and 'damn girl' and all that to me. And that he finds me very attractive. I think he wants me to be a friend with benefits but he knows I wait a few weeks before jumping into bed with someone :/

[Execu]

Lol so you want a fwb?

[Asker]

Well kind of, but I'm not sure if I could actually go through with sleeping with him :/

[BellendBob]

If you send nudes, then all his boys will see it. That's just what we do, so choose wisely.

[NovemberJoseph]

Lmao

[Execu]

Sometimes random people on the street, ya know.

[Asker]

I haven't sent him any nudes and I won't. And I know for a fact he won't show anyone because if he does, it will create conflict between him and one of his closest friends (my ex for under a month)