Why am I only attracted to white girls?

[medical2523]

OK so I have liked a couple black girls but I have been more attracted to white girls especially blondes and I never could figure out why. I'm biracial so why do you think this is instead of dating equal instead of one or the other

[doireallyneedone]

Depends on your exposure mate. I'm Asian, grew up in a very multicultural area, never been attracted to anything but Asian girls. One day, packed my shit, moved to a new state where there were very few Asian people. Now the last few girls I've dated have all been white and actually in many ways I now find white women more attractive than Asian women. I think because my social circle was previously so limited, I had very little contact with non-asian women and wasn't really able to understand what's so attractive about them. But at the end of the day, we'll always have certain preferences

[cavmanier]

The truth is no one knows the answer. No one knows why. Maybe it's because they are the princess in movies. Maybe it's because they just tend to look prettier. Maybe it's because a white lady was nice to you as a kid. No one knows though. Oh but cause you're racist is a popular answer here.

[Zina99]

Most brown or black people are more attracted to white people. It's sad but true. My sister only likes white guys and is married to one so is my brother and his baby moma is white. I personally don't care as long as he is nice to me and tall. I attract middle eastern men as long as I can remember.

[ThickSkin]

im more of biracial basically im a mutt im mix with plethora of races (creole, cambodian, hatian, asian, white, black) but i only prefer to talk to white men because thats what i like more nothing is wrong with liking one race more than the other its just what you like and prefer

[Anonymous]

I agree with what the other girl said. Internalized white supremacy.

By the way dude, you need to do some serious work on your chest. Compared to the rest of your body, your chest just looks like someone let all the air out of a balloon with a nipple on it. : /

[Creole_Flavor]

I don't really think there is an explanation for why we are attracted someone even more then others. We just like what we like of course some people will speculate many things that may more may not be true about why but the reality is that you can't help who you are attracted to :)

[PrettyBama]

Internalized white supremacy. It happens to a lot of people though. Not just black boys.

[medical2523]

No I just find them really hot

[PrettyBama]

You said you're only attracted to white girls. That's internalized white supremacy lol I mean you don't have to agree. But it's fact.

[medical2523]

I'm not saying whites are superior cause if that was the case you wouldn't see these white guys running around mad when they girls start liking us

[PrettyBama]

You're not saying whites are superior. You're saying white GIRLS are superior over black girls!

[GamerArtNerd]

No he's just more physically attracted to them. I'm more physically attracted to Asian girls but I don't think using the word "supremacy" is a very accurate or politically correct way to explain it. That term usually comes with racism.

[medical2523]

Thank you

[PrettyBama]

@GamerArtNerd it is supremacy but cool. What you're describing with the Asian girls is closer to fetishization.

[GamerArtNerd]

Umm now? He likes white girls, I like Asian girls. Why would there be 2 different terms for them?

[GamerArtNerd]

now =no*

[PrettyBama]

Ummmmm Because Asians don't have a history of dominating beauty standards and making them to fit their looks specially. lol y'all know this shit. You just like to make me type it.

[medical2523]

OK moral of story blondes are hot I want one!

[PrettyBama]

why you askin why if you truly don't care lol I gave you the answer and you're actin like I'm crazy 😂

[medical2523]

I'm not acting like your crazy I appreciate your opinion but I just don't feel Its accurate when it comes to me deeming white women superior to black cause that is not the case

[PrettyBama]

Well what makes them more attractive? Lol

[doireallyneedone]

So pretty Bama here is definitely a black girl. Hates it that all the black guys are dating white women, leaving them with no strong black men left? Am I right?

And Asian girls? Petite, clear skin, nice long straight hair and a tight vag. All historically unattractive qualities I assume.

[PrettyBama]

No sir. 1. I've never been pressed for a man. 2. I don't Mind interracial relationships. 3. I used to looooove white boys myself but I identified the internalized white supremacy and I fixed it 4. Eat my ass 5. If I was gonna be mad it wouldn't be because of THIS dude!
6. Lick my vagina 7. You're a hoe.

@doireallyneedone

[doireallyneedone]

So OP likes white girls and wants to get with them, if he does -> that's interracial dating. What evidence is there of internalised white supremacy?

I would lick, but you're vagina's too fat and ugly. Probably smelly too.

[PrettyBama]

Because he said he's only attracted to white girls. Meaning he thinks they're better. Meaning superior. It's not that hard to figure out. Y'all actin like this is so complex and it's not. There's no problem with interracial dating but when you start to think people are better than other people based on race when it comes to dating is where supremacy comes in.

Ehhhhh... I'm more interested in the older guys anyway. You got a daddy boy? 😂😂😂😂😂

[doireallyneedone]

@PrettyBama Hmm. well I'm only interested in white girls too. But I think black guys are more masculine than white guys. What do you make of that? If I were racist or a white supremacist then I would think both white men and women are more attractive than black men/women.

[Mgoods]

Ok- let me try and explain it, even though PrettyBama seemed rather clear.

We are not born, knowing what beauty is, right? We don't just make up what we find beautiful in our heads, of course we learn this as we get older, yes?

Ok, so, this is done via cultural transmission. That's how we learn how to view the world, through the culture that surrounds us. We can't help that, we are influenced every moment of the day. It's natural. Agreed, so far? Ok.

So, who dictates a culture? Whoever the predominant race/ ethnicity is, of course.
Who has historically dominated the western world? White people.

The dominant race will dictate cultural norms and ideals, they will set the beauty and status standards too, in any population, right?

So, in the western world, we have all been brought up, viewing European beauty ideals as the standard. A lot of non westernised places are now bombarded with westernised media and accepting western cultural to- globalisation.

Tbc

[Mgoods]

Cont-

Of course a lot of people have realised there is no, one standard of beauty, but for the wider population, it's more difficult to reject what we have been brought up believing, not even realising we have had that influence.

You think white women are beautiful, because that is the beauty standard. And who reaches that beauty standard more out of white or black women? White women.

Everyone is entitled to their preferences. And cases do differ, depending on the individual, but for the most part I think PrettyBama and I have covered the answer to your question. Hope that helps :)

[doireallyneedone]

@Mgoods

Lets assume you are correct that everything we idolise is based on white standards. What is a considered a beautiful woman then? Slim? Clear, soft skin? Soft, long hair? Yes would you agree? Why is it then that Asian women, arguably fulfil those criteria more so than white women?

Same thing for men. What is an attractive man by Western Standards? Tall, strong, muscular? Would you say those are all good qualities for a man? Well. Black men on average more blessed with those qualities than white men.

So yes, white standards do exist, but don't often work in their favor. The reason why people aren't attracted to black women is for physical reasons. Same thing why a lot of women aren't attracted to Asian men. Is it any coincidence that Asian men and black women do worse at dating. While black men and Asian women do relatively much much better? You can read articles, studies etc they all point to this fact.

[Mgoods]

@doireallyneedone I agree with part of your sentiment and you're right, there's a hell of a lot more to it, than I assert.

But, I will say- given that black men fulfil what is desired, yet more people are still attracted to white men, wouldn't you say that contradicts that particular point?

I agree with you that people aren't attracted to black women for physical reasons, that is the point I make. So you now tell me, why I am physically less attractive than a white woman, in your opinion?
There's a guy on here that said he's attracted to a certain face shape, but "obviously" white skin enhances that. Ok, by why "obviously"? Why is it obvious to everyone that my African features are less appealing than European features? That is what I am getting at.

The Asian and Black women doing the least well in dating, that I agree with. But, I disagree with your reasoning as to why.

[doireallyneedone]

@Mgoods Its very simple. You see heaps of black guys getting or going for white girls yes? Or Asian girls going for white guys. So lets assume these people have internalised racism. Then why are the white people reciprocating? If a black guy dates a white girl, then clearly it means the white girl is attracted to the black guy too. So your argument doesn't make sense, if everyone is attracted to a Caucasian face and white skin, why are these white women attracted to these black men who have VERY different features? Same thing with Asian women? I can tell you also there's HEAPS of black guys attracted to Asian women too. They don't have Caucasian features either.

Another way to think about it, look at White women in Asian countries. Most Western women that have been to Asia will tell you, they don't get anywhere with dating there. Guys there don't ever consider them dateable, because they're often 'too big' or 'too fat', if Caucasian was the standard shouldn't they be jumping at it?

[doireallyneedone]

@Mgoods Also, I think every race has an intrinsic attraction. E. g. Most Asian guys prefer Asian girls. I'm sure most couples you see are Asian guy with Asian girl. I can tell you most of my Asian guy friends will ONLY date Asian girls. And I'm sure this is true for other races as well.

So as a minority living in a Caucasian dominated society you are at a disadvantage immediately. Since the majority of your potential suitors would Caucasian, and if most people are intrinsically attracted to their own race, then that means only a small percentage of people will find you attractive over other races.

And on the topic of races, there are only 3 main races in my opinion. White, Asian and Black. Every ethnicity is one of or a mix of the above. Latino's south Americans do better, because a lot of them can trace back some sort of European ancestry.

[PrettyBama]

Internalized white supremacy. White can be attracted to black the same way slave owners were attracted to slaves and raped them. That doesn't mean they werent racist or found black women beautiful because at the end of the day the women whom he deemed worthy was white. White supremacy.

[Mgoods]

Ok. Ima just answer in simple sentences, just to avoid confusion.

1. UK as an example 7.5% ethnic minority, 92.5% white. Out of that many white people, some are bound to be attracted to ethnic minorities, some people do accept other ideals of beauty, it's not impossible. It's just not the majority.

2. Asia is not included when I say the western world. So they won't adhere to western ideals. They have their own cultural ideals, appeals and attractions. That's standard.

3. That's cultural and familiarity- as in we are drawn to the people we grow up with and are comfortable with. Plus family expectations.
But, is that really attraction?
If an Asian girl was brought up in a predominantly white neighbourhood (values and reinforces western ideals), then I'm sure she'd be more attracted to white men. But if you grow up in a place, or with parents tht reinforce and encourage non-western ideals, or in a neighbourhood with mostly their own ethnicity, then I'm sure they'd be more

[Mgoods]

Cont- comfortable with their own. But for the most part, kids that have grown up with a heavily influenced western culture, they're more like to accept the beauty ideals of that culture.

[Red_Dragon]

I don't believe in the racial preference stuff, but to answer your question idk. It could be any of multiple reasons.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, why am I (a white/Hispanic girl) only attracted to black guys?
I think it's because they seem to like me more than white guys.
Maybe it's kinda the same for you?

[medical2523]

No its kind of weird I get attraction signs from both white and black girls

[Opinion Owner]

Dont get me wrong i get checked out by hispanic guys as well...
but I guess I was just born liking black guys haha weird idk.
But the black guys around here will give me eyes but won't approach. So I'm not in luck :p.

[SüßeJäger]

They are your preference. Nothing wrong with preferances. I prefer them too or Latinas.

[Sexualchrist]

there's more variety to white girls like different colour hair and eyes, a wider array of facial features etc.

[TysJCB]

You are just simply more attracted to white woman, nothing wrong with it, i'm the same.

[StickStickity13]

Someone will come in saying you've been brainwashed by the media, in reality it's just what you find attractive.

[COCOCHANEL]

i'm eurasian and only into Asian men. if that's what you like, why not?

[doireallyneedone]

Eurasian? I need a picture.

[COCOCHANEL]

do you really need one?

[doireallyneedone]

If you are Eurasian. Then hell yes!

[COCOCHANEL]

i've never had caucasian features even as an infant but i think i look mixed. i don't know why people can't tell, even when i had blonde hair.

[doireallyneedone]

@COCOCHANEL Then perhaps I can be the judge of that ;p

Funnily enough I've been told be some people that I look mixed, but are shocked (and probably disappointed) when I tell them I'm full Chinese

[Anonymous]

I see a lot of half black and half white guys with white girls. But it's not always true my boyfriend is half black and half white and I'm black

[Tokana]

I don't know bro lol... they're just hot. So many of them too, like a kid in a candy store.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with being attracted to certain ethnicity. It's just what you like, however, don't overlook the ones you might like, just because of their skin color

[Anonymous]

I'm a white guy and I'm generally not attracted to white girls I think that everyone has different preferences

[Duchy_of_Trees]

Because you grew up around them, probably.

[medical2523]

No I grew up in the projects

[Duchy_of_Trees]

I guess you're wired for it. I'm mostly wired for a certain face shape but obviously white skin makes that face shape hotter.

[Anonymous]

because you are mixed?

[medical2523]

Ok but shouldn't I like both equal or is it my white side that's attracted to white girls

[Opinion Owner]

it's neither side. it's just your preference. you shouldn't have to make yourself like something. If you don't like it then it's nothing wrong with that.

[YoungManInfamus2]

white women are hot

[medical2523]

Yeah especially blondes

[YoungManInfamus2]

I prefer brunettes but blondes are nice too