The first guy was on the phone, so was unavailable and yet the girl rudely interrupted him.
I don't care how attractive a woman is I don't tolerate bad manners. As for the second guy? Maybe he saw her behaviour with the first guy and thought she was a rude woman, so ignored her and then was further validated in ignoring her when she had her 'diva' moment.
you obviously have never been set up. In the story you told, sure those guys were rude but have you seen a guy get turned down by a woman before? just because she is attractive (to you) doesn't mean she should just get everything she wants. I think that was a reality check for her and If i was watching I would high five those men.
Maybe they were just rude guys, or she asked in a rude way. I don't think it has to be about how attractive she was.
Also curious. They not only ignore, but don't want relationships with them as well. Either sex or friendship.
maybe you thought she was gorgeous but they didn't.
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The first one obviously doesn't want to be interrupted, people don't call unless it's important these days.
The other guy might be having a bad day it's to quick to judge without knowing what happened. Maybe the guy just lose his mother, got fired, study his ass off for a mid term.
Also, some guys ignore attractive girls is because they were rejected once before, hurt them before they hurt you. Others don't expected it since guys usually approach the girl.
And the biggest thing is the definition of attractive, my friends always ask me why I'm dating her or if I found a girl attractive. Our answers vary and almost never alike.
Because some "attractive" women are still too much trouble. Or the men felt her asking for help was not serious. Or that she would not like them anyway. Or the men were married / attached.
Expectancy theory states that people approach every task by first asking these 3 questions:
-Can I accomplish the task?
-Will I be rewarded for accomplishing the task?
-Is the reward worth the effort?
When it comes to men approaching beautiful women, the answer to the first question is usually NO.
When the answer to the first question is NO, the person just doesn't bother trying.
So this is basically what happens with beautiful women.
*smh* I don't know... They just get lumped into my stupid people category... It's getting really disproportional compared to the rest.
On the phone just tell her give me a sec. Not on the phone, no excuse...
college rules are tough. guys dont wanna get in trouble. seen the new laws in cali?
If a person is on phone he wouldn't want interruption that is fine but not the second guy.
Regardless of how one looks, when someone talk to us out of courtesy we have to respond.
attractive TO YOU... for those 2 guys she might be less attractive
I can understand the first situation but the second seems kind of rude. Just because the girl is gorgeous doesn't entitle her to everyone's free time/attention when she demands it, but I'd at least hear her out before I dismiss her.
Because they were douchebags?
If I'm not busy and someone strikes up a conversation with me I go along, whether they're male female, attractive or not that doesn't even factor in
Would it have been okay if the woman was unattractive?
Because overall unlike women most men are idiots. They wouldn't know a good thing if it bit there cheek!!
Simple some guys find beautiful women rude and are total bitches but that's is most cases
coz theyre intimidating
They aren't required to help her or respond.
Maybe she was being rude before to them
What guys... perhaps blind guys?
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