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To what extent does penis size matter?

I know it has been done to death but it does matter and it doesn't matter but to what extent does it matter and to what extent does it not matter is the question.
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  • Personally, size influences my pleasure in two ways.

    Most of the pleasure I experience through intercourse comes from the pressure and friction of his penis on my vaginal walls. In that sense, it's more about girth than length. For me, it isn't "the thicker, the better", it's about a partner who is a "good fit" for me. Just as penises vary in size, vaginas do as well. A snug fit is preferable---and I imagine that's true for both my pleasure and his pleasure, since I can't imagine it being as pleasurable for him if my vagina isn't a snug fit for him. If his penis is too thick for me, it can be uncomfortable and sometimes a little painful because I can feel it stretching me (a little stretch is okay, but not too much). Also keep in mind that position can affect the tightness of the vagina, and if a girl has good control over her muscles, she can squeeze her vagina around his penis for a closer "fit".

    The second thing to consider is length. Length is only important to me in the sense that sometimes when a guy is on the shorter side, it can be easier for him to "fall out" during sex, which can be a little frustrating because you have to pause for a second to put it back in. If a girl is very close to orgasming, that pause can sometimes mean "losing" her orgasm. On the other hand, being too long can be painful because, personally, it hurts when a guy is hitting my cervix. My vagina is only about 5 inches deep, so it's not necessary for a guy to be above average for him to "fill" my vagina.

    Even if a guy is the "perfect fit" for me, that doesn't guarantee great sex; nor does it mean bad sex if the guy is smaller or bigger than my perfect fit. I find that sexual chemistry, enthusiasm, open-mindedness, confidence, good communication, and my own mindset have a lot bigger impact on my sexual pleasure than penis size.

    • That was incredible Selfishstars! Very detailed about the pros and cons of each aspect in penis size. I think is a very great generalized of each woman and with your own reason how you got to that conclusion. This needs to be read by more men to end all penis questions for sure on this site :D Again, Nice Job!

    • Thanks. :) Glad if I can help shed some light on the topic.

    • I totally agree with your answer as I just want to say this same thing... it is most excellent one and a well described message you have made, which is A MUST for every immature guys to know and aware of this fact! Wishing every single guy reads this statement with open-mind and not allow their wrong mind-set blocking his mind but to grasp it with full understanding of this truth you have wrote here!

  • look, I'm not going to lie and sugar coat this... it DOES matter. However, just because you're not so blessed doesn't mean you're out of the picture.

    Too big, it hurts, get away from me! Too small, what the hell, are you even IN there?!

    Average size is about 5-6 inches. So if you're like 3" you have to work that thing harder and you probably have to do oral and other stuff. if you're 8" you have to be more careful not to stab your partner, if you get what I mean...

    More important, at least *I* think so, is the person holding the penis. Personality is what's more important, not the size of that boat. And in most cases, it's true, it's not the size but how you use it. :)

    Of course, the bigger guys don't have to use it as much as the smaller guys...they can provide good pleasure, but often that also makes them have lousy personalities...so take that as you will. It's like cute guys not having to work so hard as average joes. Same idea.

  • It maters to a certain degree, now most of the nerves in a girls vagina are in the first 3 inches so here it is important to have good girth. Another thing to take in to mind is a girls vagina isn't what gives her the most sexual pleasure they prefer clitoral stimulation, since most women aren't squirters. In onther words we would prefer a guy who knows how to use his tounge since most guys don't give oral.

    • but some girls don't like getting oral

    • I was refering to a general majority of girls.

    • I prefer girls that know how to spell tongue.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Bro we going on our 2nd week of penis size questions. That's wild. XD.

    I'll keep it simple:

    -Girls: "Doesn't matter." Why do they say that? Because if they want to have sex with you then more than likely no matter what you are "packing" she's going to fuck you anyway.

    -Maximum Potential for Sexual Pleasure through Penetration: Probably matters. Why? Well there are many reasons. Though since vaginas vary while a bigger penis has a higher potential for being more sexually pleasing it doesn't mean it always will be.

    So really it comes down to the context.

  • as long as you have good girth and decent size then its all good. most girls would rather have a 6" that's thick than a skinny 8".

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  • Ok, so... my finger feels good going in there, ok!! MY FINGER!!! it's like 1/2 an inch wide and 2.5 inches long!! I can O from that!! Size does NOT, in anyway, matter!! You can please us in al sorts of ways! Trust me!!

    xoxo

  • I'd prefer it to be above 4 1/2... Sorry if that sounds shallow, but the really tiny ones are hard to use...

    • Don't worry, at the very most that only includes 5-10% of guys, the majority will breathe a sigh of relief.

    • Why did I get voted down?

    • i guess that person doesn't like the shallow part. But good answer nonetheless

  • In my opinion, as long as I can fit my (small) hand around it, it is big enough. My fist is only 3 inches long... and I think most are bigger than that.

  • If u love a girl or a guy the size or SIZE does not matter to the other person either cock pussy waist tits height or anything else. If somebody doesn't want to be with u because u have @ 3 inch dick then they are not worth your time or effort and certainly not your love same for a girl if a guy says I'd stay if your tits were bigger... fuck them all nobody is perfect and as for cocks well mine ain't massive I don't hide behind anonymous tags but I don't care and don't care what people think, I could satisfy any guys girl as much ad he can regardless of his penis size without ever getting mine out. Make of that what u will but please everybody just learn to love yourself and what you were born with because u will be so much happier than trying to impress others or worrying what others think about u.

    Rant over haha :-D

    • "I could satisfy any guys girl as much ad he can regardless of his penis size without ever getting mine out." That's a bold statement.

    • My point is oral sex, for most women, and yes most honest women, is just as or more important than intercourse. I have made every girl I've been with (25 years of sex) cum and squirt through oral sex alone and also open-minded use of sex toys etc. I could quite easily do this and satisfy a girl without ever taking my penis out if the holster. Its about the woman your with and what length u will go to to satisfy her and I'll prove to anyone that its not all about cock size. I wasn't trying to make myself out to be a wizard lol but simply making the point to guys with a penis complex that there is more to sex and love than its size.

  • i would accept 6 inch but I would prefer 8

    • Just to be clear , flaccid or erect?

  • Not enough to worry about it, mainly because you can't do anything about it

    • good answer too

  • This question will be asked until the end of time. There is no one answer, it entirely depends on the woman.

  • I think I speak with the consesus overall when I say that it matters in proportion to the talent. As in, most girls would prefer a slightly larger guy or a large guy with talent, but if the talent is low they prefer a smaller guy. The best is a bigger guy with amazing talent, and the worst is a bigger guy with NO talent

  • Honestly if really doesn't matter as long as you work with what you have. Guys that let their dick size define them make me mad. "Oh its too small so I'm going to be self conscious in bed", "oh I'm huge so I'm going to, ram this into your vagina for ultimate pleasure" neither of those things are good.

    • Both could be true actually.

  • it can't be too small like 3 inches. but average is fine

    • of course lol

  • It kind of depends on the girl. I slept with one guy who was a little smaller than average, and one who was a little bigger. I found sex more enjoyable with the first one, because it didn't hurt and there was lots of foreplay. If you're really tight and there isn't much foreplay, a bigger penis can really hurt.

  • To me it doesn't matter what size he is ... it all matter on what he does with it (:

    • You're really cute!

  • Only to some extent, what size are you? I can give you better answer if I know more...

    • add me if you want to know

    • Sounds like an ' it doesn't matter unless it's really big or really small.'

  • It matters in an attractive way. Such as a girls "big" butt. And it doesn't matter for the most part because it doesn't make a feeling difference (at least to me) and also when you care about a person deeply then size doesn't matter ( once again, at least to me)

    • great metaphor!

    • Thanks.

    • too bad your anonymous I would give you best answer XD

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