Don’t wait around for a guy and certainly don’t change yourself for someone else’s benefit. If they honestly liked you they wouldn’t have anything to complain about and would like you for you! And you should look and feel good about yourself anyways and although it’s nice to be given compliments only you can make yourself feel good. Finally be honest and upfront with him if you’re fed up of the “waiting game” go and tell him that and either he’ll do the chasing or you move on!
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He's trying to establish control over you, and it's working. It's a huge dick move making a girl work out to transform into what you want physically... I'd sooner pick one who had the body I liked already. If you're willing to endure the pain and endurance of working out just to make some asshole agree to go on a date with you, he'll figure he can pressure you into anything.
He is NOT worth it.
If you want to lose belly fat the fastest way you can do that is by going a caloric deficit, in layman terms eat less. Exercising to lose fat only has a minimal effect on your body.
But seriously I don't understand his logic in trying to get you to improve yourself to win him over, he needs to get off his high horse and try to help you get fit together.
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Major red flag. I get wanting to get in shape but doing it because a guy asked you to thats a little bit messed up. He should take you how you are or not at all. Working out should be for you and only you not someone else. Where does it end maybe he wants you to get a boob job, or drop your friends. Kinda like the mouse that wanted a glass of milk.
What next, he's going to ask you to get a boob job? Seriously reconsider getting involved with someone like that.
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