Be natural and confident. Don't force yourself. Have fun.
For example, i was walking down the street and this girl came from opposite direction. I did not say anything to her, but she asked for directions to some park. I told her i am not sure about this, that she should go that way. And then i just took the phone out and searched for directions. After she sees where she has to go, she thanked me and i then jokingly said i could go with her, just to make sure she does not get lost again.
She had this BIIIG smile on her face. Nothing fake. she did not say anything, but she did not walk away either, she was just standing there. So i just started to walk in the direction of the park and said "this way" with a comanding, yet playful voice, bowing down and showing her they way with my hand. She burst into laughs. I sometimes see a girl that i kind of like buy feel her vibe and i don't go for it. I don't force myself into finding anything or anyone, i just let it happen as naturaly as possible
Use the situation you are in to build up a conversation, you don't go to the mall and talk about engineering and rocket science.
Another example. This beautiful lady was first in line at the supermarket. And i came running down to the aisle as i was in a hurry, holding a box of chocolates. I looked down at her basket and said to myself this is going to take forever. as the clerk was already scanning her stuff, this lady gets the box from me and gives it to the clerk while smiling at me saying "it's going to take a little longer for me". I gave her the money for my chocolate and thanked her. I stuck around and i offered to help her take the stuff to the car. We had small talk and stuff, she also told me she's 31. (i was 23 at that time). After i helped her place the bags in the car, i opened the box and i gave her one piece of candy.
Be natural, say something, if his reactions are not telling you to "back off", then keep it going.
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Creepy? Women invented the term creepy as a passive aggressive form of self up reservation to rid themselves of anyone they didn't desire. Don't project that crap on us as if we're going to act the same. We AREN'T LIKE YOU. If a guy doesn't like you, he'll just say it. But he won't sink to the abysmal passive agressive coward level of a female and accuse you of being "creepy". " Creepy" is a term that exists only in femalian.
if you're in a shop you can just compliment him and say ''i like your sweater where did you get it'' etc. or if you're in a music store you can approach him by your music taste
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@passionoflove said it quite well, just ask for help and ask questions related to shop. and then ask for their number and say, I might need your help again as you know about things quite well.
don't say creepy things, then you might be OK^^
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