I think you're wasting your time. By all means make yourself look nice, even guys do that, but l find too much makeup off-putting, some outfits a sign of self-adoration, jewellery sometimes excessive and materialistic, and my sense of smell left me the day I rolled my first cigarette so good luck there. Some guys might like it, but I don't when girls spend hours dressing themselves up. Everything in moderation.
I usually notice things if they stand out a bit more, or if I happen to look I that particular place. My friend picked me up wearing a new coat and hat before, and I realised and complimented her almost straight away because they were large items that I hadn't seen before. I sometimes notice new jewellery, or just compliment if I see some earrings that I like.
That being said, I do think it's nice that some girls pay so much attention to the details and actually make an effort for the guys they like, but at the end of the day it's all superficial. If a guy falls in love with you, it's not going to be because of the eye-liner you saw on sale, the rosy perfume you got for Christmas, the lush curls in your hair, your push-up bra, cotton blouse or sparkle bracelets. It's going to be because of you.
And if he sees how you look first thing in the morning and breaks up with you immediately then you'll know it's not worth the effort next time. :)
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As a guy I notice when a girl looks nice overall and smells nice, but that's as good as I can do. If I'm having a really good day I can notice if one of the girls at work has had a haircut.
But as far as noticing the details of an outfit goes, no. I can spend 3 hours in a room full of women and if someone were to ask me to describe the shoes that anybody in that room was wearing I wouldn't be able to.
Which is funny because my wife likes to bring me clothes shopping because she says I have a good eye for what suits her.
But in short, I think most men notice when the 'whole package' looks good, but the little details? Thats more for you and to impress other women, because more than likely it will be lost on the menfolk.
I know I'm not a guy, but I'll just give you something from my experience.
Yes, guys do notice. Jewelry, not so much, depending on if it's something very unique and obvious, but they do notice a girl's outfit and her perfume (if they're up close enough). They notice if the outfit looks good on her and if she can work it. Also, if you're wearing a dress, they will definitely notice. Only guys who feel close to you will give you a compliment though, like a best guy friend or a really good guy friend. Or a really outgoing guy or a guy trying to hit on you. The shy-crush dude will not say anything, but trust me, he noticed.
My best guy friends will tell me I look nice if I'm dressed up, or they will tell me I have nice style. My crush hasn't given me a single compliment yet, except on my shoes, because he knows I'm really into sneakers. It's this thing where shy guys overthink everything and don't want to come off as creepy, even though they are not.
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Well of course we notice that a girl is dressed nice and also smells nice and we like that.. But we dont really notice what type of jewelry you are wearing or brand the belt or the purse are and little details like that, we also dont notice when girls cut half an inch of their hair lol not because we dont care but its like guys like simple beauty , as long as ur cute and dress nice ( not necessairly too fancy ) than it shouldn't be hard for a guy to like because we are really weak when we see real beauty ( at least me lol) dont over do it or even think too much about these things really :-)
I notice in as much as it tells me how high or low maintenance she is, how trendy she dress's/accessorizes is also a good indicator of her priorities in life.
This is a conscious thing I have learned to do, I use it as a tool to help determine what women I might want to talk to and what women I want to avoid.We always do... we just dont compliment you bcz we dont want to give a wrong signal! You know that we cannot go after evrry beautiful girl! So we dont compliment much which doesn't mean that we dont like you! And the other reason for not complimenting would give others a flirty impression of us...
:)In short yes, we don't necessarily look at little things like earrings but we look at the whole package and we notice women who look nice more than girls who wear boring stuff.
I won't lie, I hardly notice. I pay much for attention to the girl herself than to what she's wearing or how she did her hair.
sometimes we notice, sometimes we are oblivious to it
I notice. I just assume they are doing it for themselves and girls though since that's what they always say
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