I broke up with this girl but she is still willing to talk to me. Does she still have feelings for me?
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Well, you broke up with her. Of course she still has feelings. If she still wants to talk to you, there's a good chance there is still some spark there on her end. And so she's not ready to get together with you yet - let it breathe. Tell her that you've got a busy work week coming up, or you've got plans, but you would love to grab a drink the following week. She will be all over you like white on rice. And when you do finally see her then you will know for sure what the deal is - because phone, email, im, texts - those are all word based contacting where things can be misconstrued and misinterpreted. To know the real deal you are going to have to get her in a position to see her and look in her eyes and you will know. Look at the way she looks at you. You will 100% know if there are still strong feelings there, or if it's just a friend vibe she wants. And honestly - who the hell isn't scared to love someone? You put yourself out there for something you believe is pure and right with your whole being. Only to have it fall apart. That's life and that's most definitely love - everyone is scared of being hurt. No matter how strong they claim or seem to be
and in my case it had little to do with any left over feelings
when my boyfriend and I broke up I decided that even if we weren't compatible on that level we could still be friends...we still had a lot in common and knew a lot of the same people and so on and so forth.....it would have been very lame indeed to stop being friends with him just because we broke up....yeah I was hurt but it felt even better to conquer the hurt and continue being friends with him......i feel like my situation is a little strange but it's what happened......
It's possible that there are some feelings there, or maybe she doesn't want you out of her life completely. It's better to have someone as a friend than to not have them at all. She could just be mature about the situation and doesn't have any hard feelings and wants to continue being friends. Being able to tell if she still has feelings is possible through her body language and actions.