Why do girls cover themselves after you have seen them naked?
Hi girls, I have a serious problem maybe you all can help me or any other guy that is having this problem. Several times I have went to the beach and...
Most Helpful Guy
A girls body is her own personal work of art. And sometimes they don't want it on full display.
When it's not on full display (sitting in the hall with friends) the last thing she wants is some creepy guy looking at her chest like she's an object, or a piece of meat.
When she's nude on a beach, it's about being on display, being fun, and allowing the curiosities of others to unfold. She's inviting your eyes. Just remember to smile and be normal, not distant, staring, not smiling, and creepy.
When she's dressed up and in a different environment, she wants eye contact and regular chit chat.
If you're obsessing about her body, she's likely feeling devalued - almost like you're saying she's only worth looking at as a sex symbol, instead of a fun pretty girl in the hall.
What you should have done was gone out of your way to completely ignore her body, while smiling at her eyes and mouth.
Next time, don't act creepy. If you're not her boyfriend, then why would she want you staring at her parts? Smile, be normal, and learn how to calibrate yourself in certain situations.
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What Girls Said 4
"when she saw me coming she stop what she was doing and started to get uncomfortable and hang her head down and pick her nails. Nevertheless, I paid her no attention and just kept walking"
if you paid her no attention how come you can give such a detailed description of what she was doing?
You were probably staring at her, from the sounds of it. Otherwise she wouldn't have really noticed or cared. Sometimes I'll wear a low-cut top and I won't mind it, but then some guy will walk by and stare pointedly at my breasts in a very sexual way, and I'll act just like that girl did. You should have more respect for her privacy.
At the beach, other people are usually naked as well. There's a perceived non-sexiness to it, where people who see you won't think of you as sexual objects. Perhaps that's not always the case, but that's how many girls I know think of it.
Now, from reading your post, it sounds like you have little respect for her privacy. In fact it sounds like you were staring and she noticed, like I said- otherwise she wouldn't have had any reaction to you being there. Seeing a guy at the beach and then seeing him at school is pretty commonplace, so you must have been doing something out of the ordinary (even if unintentional on your part). She probably was reacting more toward your actions creeping her out than you having seen her naked on the beach before.
It a uncomfortable feeling there is this guy who has never seen me makes but he explored my privates one and now all he dosenis stare at me and its uncomfortable
To me it sounds like you were watching her very intently since you can describe what she was doing so well - as audreymarie21 said.
If you don't want to be called a pervert, don't act like one by staring at a girl's boobs openly.
What Guys Said 4
You're looking at her too much, period.
they just get uncomortable at times when guys see them like this or check them out a lot , even if you've allready since a lot of them before . I've been to the beach before and noticed this as well . some girls can get uncomfortable if you check them out even though there on the beach in tight tiny bikini's
I think its just in what context that you see her naked. An instance at the beach may feel much different from in school or the work place.
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