Ladies are you attracted to black men?

[Anonymous]

Are you physically attracted to a black guys. Im just a little curious because all you see in todays world and through all media are white guys. So do you find black guys sexy, handsome and all? I believe the media has a huge influence on how you see people and individuals. I dont think were ever represented in a light that displays our romantic side or gentle side or as attractive well mannered, intelligent men. Instead i think were hardly ever displayed or at least shown in minor roles. I've seen this occur many times over in movies. In many roles were casted as a supporting act or in minor roles. In superhero movies were cast as the side kick. As far as romantic love interest goes were seen as brutes if any. Whats your take on this?

[Anonymous]

I've sort of given up on black guys to be honest... I've probably has the worst luck with them then any other race... I livw in a predominantly white community and the black guys here don't have values, their rude, arrogant and cocky. Some are very promiscuous and others spend their time talking about how promiscuous they would be. I've seen this my whole life.

The only hope I have is because of my dad. He's a genius and probably the best dad anyone can ask for and he’s a black men. He's gone through so much because of discrimination. Oh and my younger brother! He's incredibly sweet and looks out for me.

But i don't feel like black men like this don't exists anymore. If they do, they want a white girl.

Also, black guys don't generally give me the rime of day. And if the do, it's purely sexual and some of them have straight up told me it's because im light skinned/ hazel eyes. So i just feel like they only see me as a sexual object.

[Asker]

awww dam im sorry that you had these experiences but i promise you and can assure you without a doubt that there are many black guys who have a good, gentle and sweet heart. It sucks that youve felt this way and im honestly ashamed that youve felt this but all i can say is that its probably cause thyre hell immature. I myself wouldn't ever turn you down if you were nice, sweet and caring. We would give you the time of day just try coming up to us and introducing yourself to ones that are approachable. Sometimes you may go unnoticed because we dont believe your generally want us and so we develop this tough skin which would seam like arrogance or cockiness. But there are many black guys who are like your dad and we would love to have you for a girlfriend. Im sorry for what you've experienced but we are out there and we can appreciate a sister with as much love and respect as we give our mothers. So please dont give up id hate to think that crush didn't want anything to do with black men.

[Iwjwamo]

OH MY GOD YESSS
They're just superior in every category in my opinion. Not to generalise but they have the height, nice hands nice toned backs, nice eyes and beautiful smiles. Not to mention the way they walk and talk is sooo sexy. Definitely my preference.

In particular DMX, B. O. B and FRANK OCEAN MY FAVOURITE 😍😍😍😍

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[Asker]

haha :) you sound hell excited lol but hey, thanks for your post i appreciate it. Now its just a matter of time before the haters come and the downvotes come for your preference.

[Iwjwamo]

Tbh haters can down vote my comments as many times as they like but black guys aren't gonna get any less sexy lmao 😂😂😂

[ArchDruidMordred]

Quick question. When you say "the way they talk" do you mean ghettospeak?

[Iwjwamo]

Hahaha yeah I know it's weird isn't it but I find it so hot.

AND why am I getting down votes? HahHa are people crazy !

[Asker]

people on G@G hate black guys dont know why. If you stated the opposite you would 0 downvotes fucking racists haha.

[TheReturnOfRae]

#Down4MyNiggas

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[Anonymous]

White woman black male marriages fail more than any other race combination according to the CDC. The white woman files at year seven on average after two kids because he is "selfish" as the number one reason, second reason is cheating. Best understanding of selfish that I have is he spends the house money on himslef not the kids. Also, black guys generally dont marry and their kids are raised by single moms. See link

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[Opinion Owner]

You can downvote, but, it won't change the facts. :)

[Asker]

dude dont point out statitics in order to your racism. If your not racist then cool but just know correlation does not imply causation just like if your flipped a coin ten times and it landed on head 8 times there's absolutely no gurantee that the next brother is like that.

[Opinion Owner]

Facts are facts. This isn't a coin flip, its demographics and culture. I didn't create the stats but people would be foolish to ignore them.

[Asker]

dont be foolish bro like i said earlier correlation does in no way imply causation. The coin flip was an analogy and it can be easily pointed out that your past results as no effect or has no connection to your next results. Marriage regardless of color of can fail statistics dont have a say on the outcome there actions do. Its absolutely foolish and ridiculous to believe that my color has anything to do with me failing.

[Opinion Owner]

Yurncolor puts you into a statistical group that has a very high rate of creating babies and single moms. Your group also has divorce rates with white women that are through the roof. Your group has a culture and that culture has certain values and behaviours that cause these results. Not everyone one in your group is lime that but, the likelihood of finding a guy who will marry and stay married to a white woman is more like roulette ods, not coin flip odds. Dont like it? Mwell Imdidnt create the stats. Black guys and non-racist white women who married them did. Dont like the single moms stats, well I didn't create that either, black guys did. Whats the rate, 72% single moms for black babies, white guys, 25%. Different cultures, different odds.

[Opinion Owner]

Well goodnight. My wife and I are going to bed. I have to get up early and earn some money to support my kids in college.

[Asker]

Firstly let me guess these statistics are from America, right? Secondly im not a group "Its not your group" its me, im an individual i dont represent no one but me. Lets get that right what any otehr black guy does has absolutely no effect on me they live their lives like i live mine. Your way of speaking is old fashioned and out dated. Black men dont only live in america they live all across the globe im pretty sure those statistics are relative to America. In the modern we've all been imerged black and white, black and Asian. We share the same cultures more so now then ever before. These statictics that you keep pulling up says absolutely nothing about whether or not i will be successful in marriage. Just like a coin flip statistic won't lead me into believing that a coin is likely to land on one side.

[Klaatu51]

sure there are girls who like black guys... don't worry ;-)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I'm black so yeah. I don't know if u yourself like black women, but most black girls have a preference for black guys.

[Asker]

I love black girls that's not even a question, I absolutely love everything about them. They're my preference by default there ain't nothing finer than a sister.

[puncakegirl]

Who wouldn't Want to bang this guy
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[tarakc9286]

I've had sex with several black guys - sometimes it's been really great, sometimes not. The ones who actually are pretty well equipped and have a thing for smaller white women are the best, but some have ended up being kind of lazy in bed and not living up to their reputation in terms of size and stamina.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm Panamanian and black but for the most part I look black. but I'm attracted to light /caramel dark tan type of black men but RARELY attracted to a typical dark black man. PS I live in Florida so its plenty of dark ones but I like different guys period

[Asker]

can you give me some examples. I wanna get a rough idea of what your into.

[Tokana]

Her first sentence lol.. gurl you black okay. Being Panamanian don't make you better than simply being BLACK.

[Opinion Owner]

I said for the most part I'm black , don't try to twist my words , and I said I'm just into like carmel/lighter skin tones cause based off of guys I've talked to they seem to be more seem more sensitive and open. but Idont just shut out anyone who doesn't fit that description

[Asker]

just out of curiosity do i fit your description? 41.media.tumblr.com/.../...mrHbNV1r8n3ceo1_500.jpg

[Notedkibbles]

Light caramel dark 😰

[Asker]

why the down votes?

[mindysayshi]

I would say the opposite of some of these other girls: skin color does matter to me because it affects what a guy looks like, which affects whether I'm attracted to him. That said, I am very attracted to black guys. I always have been. The media may not portray everyone fairly, but I think some black actors and performers have really broken through and showed the world complex, interesting performances.

[Queen_naki5]

I've always been more attracted to black and Latino men the most. For some reason, they have a look that draws me more to them ( body types, facial structures, and personalities). However, after really going out, I find attractive men of all ethnicities. I love all men in general.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Yes, of course. I'm attracted to all races of men. Skin color doesn't matter to me.

[Asker]

why the down votes? Thank you for your opinion by the way.

[BumbleDeev]

not really, I prefer white guys. But some mixed (half black half white) guys are sexy

[Shrooms]

Oh, look! An Asian that doesn't like black guys! How surprising and unlikely!

[BumbleDeev]

I'm half black, not Aisan at all, df? @Shrooms

[BumbleDeev]

Asian*

[Shrooms]

You are not asian? What?

[BumbleDeev]

I am not Asian, nobody in my family is. My dad is black, my mother is white @Shrooms

[Shrooms]

Well you kinda look like an Asian my bad sorry

[BumbleDeev]

Haha that's alright, I do kinda look Asian in that picture @Shrooms

[In-sight-ful]

I have always been attracted to black men... Don't know why... But I have been. I am currently dating and very much in love with a black man.

[Asker]

What do you think of me? 41.media.tumblr.com/.../...mrHbNV1r8n3ceo1_500.jpg

[In-sight-ful]

What's with the down votes?

Commenting my true opinion would probably be unfair to my boyfriend.

[Asker]

i honestly think its because you mentioned that your attracted to black men i dont think it can be anything else. I've come to realise that a a lot of people are bias on this site as seen as some of the opinions and where the votes lie.

[In-sight-ful]

I just don't see any issue with that being my preference... every time I mention anything about having a black boyfriend on this site it gets downvotes... why are people so against it... its frustrating

[Asker]

I know and its sites like these, YouTube and more that make me really wonder about progression as they call it. Some other girl commented she only prefers "white guys" and she pulled more upvotes than anyone else now let some girl say she prefers black males and see how many down votes she gets from both girls and guys. The fact that people are behind a monitor will always give them the freedom to express themselves in the manner in which they please to propose. And i actually enjoy seeing the shear truth and bizarre nature of how ironic some people are. Racism is strong and i challenge you to look at the contrast of how preference for black men vs white men are received as. The truth really does speak out when you come to look at it. Im glad that your being honest. The dislike of black men in general is contradictory to the belief that skin color doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

I'm white and I'm not attracted to black men, I don't know why though

[Asker]

ww\hen you say black men. Do you mean all black men?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah, i like Spanish and brazilian etc but not black guys

[Asker]

So these guys do nothing for ya?
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[Opinion Owner]

not really no

[Tokana]

The upvotes tho lol

[Asker]

@Tokana i know why so much upvotes for girls who aren't attracted to black men? And for anon is it the skin color because im pretty sure it can't be anything else? im just curious to know.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah I think it's just the skin colour I'm not attracted to. Don't get me wrong i'm not saying that black guys aren't attractive, just not to me personally, but then other girls will prefer them

[palomajoa]

I don't look at the race. I never liked a black guy, but that is because I never truly met one. If I like his face features and his personality, I know I would like him.

[AnayaWilliams]

I'm attracted to both skin colors. I don't care what color he is. As long as he has a nice personality that's really all that matters to me. Skin color to me doesn't really matter.

[abundantlyrich]

They're normally with white women more than the other races. They get a better exposure than Asian guys anyway.

[Asker]

theyre not normally with white girls. I myself as a black guy have a preference of black girls. And so do most African American guys.

[aamy811]

Yeah I like black guys, but black guys don't like me.

[Asker]

why's that?

[aamy811]

Most black guys I know don't like dark skin black girls or "black looking black girls"; or they just don't like black girls period.
One guy said I had a personality like a white girl, so he said "why would I I for a black girl that acts white, when I can just get a pretty white girl who acts white"

[Asker]

those kind of dudes piss me off. I hate those guys who are like that. Im very into black girls and i love them as i came from a black woman. Dark skin and light skin girls are beautiful. I can't stand those guys who hate on their on kind. Luckily there's no too much of them walking around. Im sorry you had to go through that. there's plenty of brothers that love sisters.

[aamy811]

It's fine, I cried about it then and it was a really big part of my life but not anymore. I've had it said to me enough times and said to other girls enough times that I've just accepted it. I know I'm not the supermodel or even the girl the guys will fawn over. I've just accepts it, that's just part of growing up

[Asker]

im actually sincerely sorry and its stupid to think the amount of value these guys give to looks. You dont have to be a supermodel. You dont have to change who you are. I'm certain your a beautiful, intelligent person. If these guys knew any better im sure they'd be jumping up and under buses and trains to get at you. Sorry, and may god bless you but if i may ask what was it that you cried about and learnt to accept?

[aamy811]

I'm not as pretty as other girls, or that guys won't think I'm as pretty. I already knew that because growing up all my friend were 8 or 9s, but hearing it really hurt me.
Now I've accepted that their the kind if girls who become models and get the attention of every guy in the bar. I'm the funny one, the nice one, the creative one. They're the pretty, hot, sexy, cute ones

[Asker]

If you stay tru to your word i can't see a reason why guys wouldn't be swarming all over you. you said your funny, nice and creative. Those traits are something every man would treasure i know i would id appreciate just having a general conversation with you. If you are what you represent your an absolute beauty amy..

[Tokana]

@aamy811

I'm flirting with a dark skinned black girl irl. But she's too shy

[aamy811]

Yeah but unfortunately people can't see personality. That's why I'm the brides maid, not the bride. It's okay you don't have to console me I'm really fine with it
@Tokana good for you, I hope it works out well

[Tokana]

Lol I've dated one before too. They're good looking as well. You must of spoken to some dumb guys.

[aamy811]

@Tokana this has just been a general through out my life. From family, to guy friends, to crushes, to other guys, to strangers... Tons of different people have told me this

[Asker]

I just dont want you to get the wrong idea. But yea i really do see the fun, bright, virbrant, intelligent and beautiful person that you are. I've actually enjoyed talking to you. And though i may nothave seen the funny side of you im sure there's a lot more than what meets the eye. Who got married btw?

[aamy811]

My friend Becky got married.
But I meant that as more of an expression. Like they're all the girls guys approach or flirt with and I'm the one who guys just hangout with. I'm not really the girl you want to be in a relationship with, I'm the one you want to be friends with though

[Notedkibbles]

I would date you

[aamy811]

@Notedkibbles thank you

[Queen_naki5]

@aamy811 I have noticed that too.

[aamy811]

@Queen_naki5 yeah most black guys I know don't like black girls or they only like light skinned black girls. It makes me sad because I'm like "then who likes us?"

[Queen_naki5]

@aamy811 luckily, there are some black guys out there who either don't care about that or they grew out of it, because they realized how stupid they were being. I'm dark-skinned as well, I don't know if you can tell from the pic but a lot of guys wouldn't give me the time of day in high school, then years past, I see them, trying to add me on social media and get my number always. Truth is, people are too brainwashed by the media's portrayal of beauty then to really go out there and see beauty for themselves. Many of the ones who say "I don't dark skinned girls" for the mere fact that she is dark skinned are ignorant. Trust me, you don't want that. There are lots of guys who'll drool over an attractive dark skinned girl regardless of race. My current bf is from South America (Brazil) and he treats me like a queen.

[Queen_naki5]

I also want to add, do not let what some dumb guys say get you down. Stay focused on educating yourself and being the best person that you could be. Ultimately, that will get you further.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I have been attracted to black guys, white guys, Latino guys, Asian guys, etc.
Why limit myself?

[EmBem]

Yeah i do find some attractive, and i would date a black guy. Skin colour doesn't matter to me. would you ever date a white girl?

[sexysportsbabe666]

yeah I've actually dreamed of dating a black guy cos a lot of them are hot

[Asker]

Come get us while we're sizzling hot. Be sure to bring some water ;)

[fragilebird]

So far I've never been attracted to a black man but who knows...

[Asker]

In what terms physical or personality wise?

[fragilebird]

Both matters but he'd need a great personnality to interest me.

[Anonymous]

I'm white but I'm not attracted to black men but it probably would depend on the guy

[Asker]

why not?

[Opinion Owner]

hard to exsplain

[Asker]

please do, it would help me to understand.

[Opinion Owner]

um for one thing they seem tough and sortive curse a bit sometimes

[Asker]

um no where not all tough. The media sema to represent us as brutes who are hulks and all but its not like that. I think you might mistaken that for us being masculine or i guess maybe confident or cocky. As far as the cursing sides of things go everybody curses. But im sure theirs a lot more than what meets the eye but what else have you found out. Thank you for telling by the way :)

[Opinion Owner]

your welcome :) and I also found out this one guy I was frieands with on a game only cared about drugs money and girls

[Asker]

haha but as you can see people like that come from all walks of life. To say that black males are genetically predisposed to act in one way is preposterous. Im a black man i can assure you that contrary to popular belief through media were not all gangsters we dont wear guns by our hips or we dont all act rude or selfish. We care, were nice, were respectful, kind, polite, confident, smart, intelligent, funny and more but it seams to be in the spotlight for all the "selected wrong reasons". Gang warfare, drugs, stealing, murder, corruption. Now try pointing out the nice, sweet, adoring, intelligent, strong, romantic black man and you can see the degree of contrast in the media. We are out there. Thank you again what game was it by the way?

[Opinion Owner]

your welcome and that's good to know the game was playstationnetwork on the PS3

[Asker]

oooh i play ps3 too you should add me sometime specially if you play fifa, need for speed or shooting games. oh and by the way how'd you come to find out that he was only into drugs, money and girls?

[Opinion Owner]

I found this out from a guy on playstationnetwork with the nick name emokittyboy

[Opinion Owner]

my nick name on playstation network is GirlRichy if u find me on there

[theCatcherintheRye]

I agree with you about minor roles and all. And yes i find them attractive..

[zorro8888]

I'd hope so since you're going to marry one haha :P

[Asker]

Thank you ms. CatcherinRye i surely do applaud you on understanding my take on this matter. Whats your type, Will smith?

[theCatcherintheRye]

@zorro8888 haha yeah could i be any more obvious! I'm marrying one :P lol

[theCatcherintheRye]

Hmm well Asker i dont know depends on the guy and Will is a handsome actor :P lol

[zorro8888]

Haha just had to let the asker know exactly how much you love them >:D
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[theCatcherintheRye]

@zorro8888 yeah it's me when i see zorro! :O lol

[zorro8888]

I knew it :P Wifey Material haha
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[Asker]

Are you marrying a black man? Im confused.

[theCatcherintheRye]

@zorro8888 hahaha dat wink! 31.media.tumblr.com/...ljbcgkPROS1qixleeo1_500.gif

[theCatcherintheRye]

hahah Asker it's a GaG wedding :P lol

[Asker]

who are you marrying? I want to be the best man. *purchasing my tuxedo*

[theCatcherintheRye]

hahaha the groom is Zorro yeah get ready! we're thinking a June wedding! LOL

[Asker]

Noo don't leave me out. The more the merrier. I will do you proud I promise

[zorro8888]

Haha I live for that smile :P
Of course it will be a June wedding that's the dream :D

@asker
Of course you can be my best man! We'll be in the finest tuxes we can find LMAO