i have liked this guy for months now and he still hasn't asked me out. our friends have started to notice that we are always together and have mentioned that people think were dating. This guy has never been in a relationship or had a first kiss so i am not expecting him to ask me out all super suave. he gets really shy or sarcastic when we get too flirty and kind of pretends its not happening. i get this feeling that he doesn't know for sure that i like him more than a friend because i hangout with all guys. But i just want to finally show him! Would it be weird to just say "can i kiss you?" randomly? I dont want to just plant one on him cause it would be his first. Also considering he never lets us get flirty enough there would probably never be natural time to kiss him without him making the move.
Just do it. Asking would make it super awkward. It would be like asking "hey can I shit in your toilet?" You don't need to announce what you plan to do.
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yes, it makes thing awkward. the person being asked gets nervous. just go for it, if it isn't wanted the other person will pull away.
Ask him out, then whenever it feels natural (and/or at the very end) ask if you can kiss him. To me that'd be really god damn cute.
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Nope not at all. In fact I do it all the time.
It's very weird. Don't ask, just do it
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