How do Asian men treat women they like diffrently from white men ect?

[Anonymous]

How do Asian men (expecially Korean men) treat women they are interested in. How Do they show they care? I know guys are guys no matter the race but sometimes its diffrent depending on tradition and such expecially if their rasied by stricted parents. A korean guy I know always wants to know if I've eaten or hungry and if I am he will always get me something no ifs ands or buts lol. If I say no he keeps insisting untill i say yes. I guess he's just being nice but im not used to that with other men unless there my boyfriends. Not even male friends of other races.

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I am not Asian but but have been told by many that I am very pretty, so I guess im decent looking enough for him to maybe be attracted to me.. he also asked me if I had a boyfriend. He Asked me twice about a guy who I said was intrested in me. (I guess he wanted to know if I was intrested in that guy aswell.) And will only strike up convo with me when im alone or when he drives me home.

[hypno-trip]

Well I'll start this by saying that I'm pretty well americanized... I'll answer best I can. Korean culture is pretty similar to Chinese culture and from my experience a good Chinese guy is expected to frequently tend to her girlfriend's well being. He should see if she has enough to eat or needs a ride home.

This guy is not your boyfriend but he seems to like you (from my point of view). He'll go out of his way to take care of you and show that he can make a good boyfriend. I think that's pretty typical Chinese behavior, probably similar in Korean. But he may also just be interested in you as a friend. Being extra extra hospitable is pretty typical in China and similar cultures I guess...

[Klaatu51]

why do you believe every race treats the opposite gender differently basically?

i believe it depends on the guy.. not on the race ;-)

[BelleGirl21]

I married a korean man. There's a lot to it so I don't feel like I can give you a very detailed answer here. For the most part it's fine but I feel like korean people have a very businesslike view of relationships. I wouldn't seriously be with another first generation korean man again if I had the choice. A guy born in the US probably.
From my experience American guys tend to worry more about what you think and pamper you. But korean guys tend to be more protective, if not possessive.

[Illusive_Man]

So... is that a good thing... a bad thing?

[mei0313]

Agreeeeeee :)

[hypno-trip]

KOOOH-RHEA!

[Ihav2fart]

When did you become a mod? :o

[hypno-trip]

Business-like view of relationship！！！！! I hope us Chinese guys aren't like that, but I'd probably be disappointed D:

[Asker]

Good answer! And yea I've noticed that a Tiny bit with him.. kind of "protectiveish" lol

[BelleGirl21]

@illusive_man, it's good and bad. Like I said I wouldn't do it again :/
@ihav2fart, probably a week ago.
@hypno-trip, I think it's very much part of Asian culture (but I could be totally wrong).

[Illusive_Man]

I don't blame ya. One of the many reasons why I ran away from their overly-calculating world.

[hypno-trip]

@Illusive_Man LOL says the japanophile!

[mei0313]

It is how they were raised lol our parents always ask have you eaten yet, do you want to eat, etc etc
It is like "how are you" to Korean
They aren't that different from any other guys from the rest of the world ;)
you would be able to notice it if he likes you and if he cares about you :)

[mei0313]

Oh lol thank you for mh :)

[Asker]

No problem! :)

[Illusive_Man]

*shrug
I don't know how white men treat their women well enough to tell lol
I will ask if she wants something to eat I suppose.

[miss_ana]

lets ask @Japan02 @hypno-trip @Ihav2fart @Illusive_Man

[Ihav2fart]

I'm nto a white man so I have no idea how different it would be.

@BelleGirl21 sorry to put you on the spot ms stalker but this is a question you could answer. :o

[BelleGirl21]

@ihav2fart, anytime ;)

[Keyspirits]

I'd treat @thechica like she's the most BEAUTIFUL gurl in the wirld that is only meant for meh 💐🌹

[Ihav2fart]

aww how cutee

[thechica]

okay, thats very nice of you.

[Ihav2fart]

Have you eaten yet? take my 20 dollar amazing gift card

[blondfrog]

Seems like he likes you a lot its like that in my culture too your supposed to keep offering someone food especially if its a guest or relative.

[Bastian93]

Asian as in Indian, Pakistani, Sri Lankan, Bangladeshi?

[Anonymous]

They would treat you like your their trophy.. cause they scored a white chick.

[WilliamWinslow]

Not totally right. I am an Asian, and I know many Asian guys like White girls while they are too shy (or because of other reasons) to get a White girlfriend.
But for those who are dating a White girl, such as me, they are already confident enough so that they will not treat White girls as trophy. Instead, they just treat her as his girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

ok cool

[WilliamWinslow]

But on the contrary, those Asian guys who like White girls but who cannot get one always imagine the scene that he gets a White girlfriend and brag it to his family and Asian friends, and expect their kudos on him.

[Illusive_Man]

(Read William's defense of Asian *laughs)
It's just a parabolic self-masturbation of how different he is from the rest isn't it BAHAHahahaha