Should you wait for a girl, who friend zoned you and went back to her ex?

[Anonymous]

So this girl (best friend of mine but i falled for her and told her my feelings) friend zoned me and went back her ex who cheated on her before. Many people warned her not to date that guy bcoz everyone knows he is a jerk but she does not care about that as she is in love with him. I still remember her words to me,' please, you are perfect and way better then him i truly agree but I don't know why but i can't leave him and I don't know why everybody has a problem with me dating this guy'.
She also told me that i am way more closer to her then her bf.

But i could not take this anymore so i begged her to let me move on (cutting all contacts with her) as i dont wanna hurt myself and this made her depressed. A lot depressed actually.
I still have a hope that some day she will regret chosing her ex and she will show up.
What do you think guys?

[nips927]

Seriously, whats sad is your willing to wait for her, you need to move on, b4 my friends with benefits was my friends with benefits , we were friends, while we were friends she was dating one her exes, they broke up 2 years ago she moved on, he didn't he tried night and day to try and get back with her finally she gave him a chance but in the end she wasn't happy, he treated her like shit, they were suppose to spend nye together and he blew her off, she told me and i told her to end it with him, he still wouldn't let her go, she asked him are you seriously going to wait forever he said yes til the day he dies, she told him move on and forget it, after she hung up the phone me and her haf sex, then a week goes by he came to get his stuff, that dence mf still didn't get it (he knew about me, but he didn't know me and her were having sex) he kept trying after it was over she finally told him me and her had sex, i was at work, i didn't find out til later, but it took that much, do yourself a favor move on, and just stop trying

[Anonymous]

Never make someone your priority while you are merely an option to them. That is why there are so many nice guys getting hurt all the time. Don't wait on a girl while she is with someone else. Just like men use women for sex, women use men for emotional support. She is using you emotionally, and has no desire to ever give you the type of relationship you want. You have to look out for yourself.

Women respect guys that respect themselves. Putting your life and happiness on hold for her to hopefully make a decision to pick you shows a complete lack of self respect. Can you imagine how weak and pathetic a woman would look if she sat around faithfully while the man she loved went around fucking ever other girl on the planet?

Move on with your life, and next time, don't be friends with a girl you like. Either ask her out up front, or only hang out with girls you aren't attracted to. If a girl you like doesn't want to go out with you, then cut her out of your life immediately in order to protect yourself.

[honeybones]

In all honesty I had a friend who is in the same situation and I helped her realize that it's best to let it go. You should because she doesn't care if you're depressed or hurt at all and that's really selfish. She is probably in an abusive relationship, usually people in them tend to have and inexplicable fear about leaving the other person. So in my opinion think of your own health cause this girl's not correct meant ally and emotionally because who wants a cheater? No one sane :)
I hope I helped :3 plus you seem like a great person, and I'm sure you'll find someone who'll truly value you. Take care :)

[MrsHayes]

Honey if she can't let him go, you need to give her an ultimatum. Either let you go or let him go. A real woman won't put a man through this kind of crap. Ask her how it would feel if it was the other way around. Tell her you care about her but you don't want to hurt any longer

[pr3ttybr0wn]

if this girl does not appreciate you right now then move on. she's not the only girl in the world. she isn't the one for you. you can't hold on waiting for this girl because you don't know what shell do. don't you deserve a woman who wants u the way you want her?

[SexyTexas]

Wait for no one. She made her choice. Move on with your life. Doesn't mean you have to harbor ill will for her, if you find each other in the future, try again. Sometimes its just bad timing.

[Mysterio421]

Pal, haven't you got the message yet? Girls like bad boys who are unpredictable, unreliable, who keep them in a chase. You have to be like this in order to get chicks. Are there exceptions sure, but this is generally how they want it. Trust me when I tell you to move on. She friend zoned you or put you in the backup option. She will come running back to you soon crying that the ex did this and that and blah blah blah. She will use you as a shoulder to cry on and then repeat cycle. Then when she can't find guys anymore or has a low self esteem, she will 'like' you and then use you. She is sick and needs help. She must love abuse. You see bro, generally speaking chicks like to change a guy. Like a renovation or a fixer upper. It's part of a chasing game. If you have ever rejected a chick before, typically she will run back to you and keep trying. My point is don't waste anymore time on her. Move on and find a better girl.

[Jager66]

Lol no... NEVER!! try to change friend zone status because even if you get her she will end up fucking some beast behind a dumpster just to get away from you.

Find someone who is attracted to you as you are to her, that is where you can find fulfillment in your relationships.

[Anonymous]

She will regret it but unfortunately you wil have moved on before she realizes it. It happened to me.

[Marinepilot]

Fuck that bitch ! She's not worthy of you. You sound like a good man. I always told friend zoning cunts to stay the fuck away from me. Most wanted me for more. I used them sexually and dumped. To me when a woman friend zones a man, that's the worst rejection. You don't need it.

[Alex_PS]

As she said "you are perfect and way better than him" so don't waste your time with her anymore If she thinks you that way and still rejects you just imagine other girls what would do to get you. Bro just leave her she doesn't deserve you!

[NexAngelus]

cut her clean, let her cold turkey with u not around. either way ull be better off in the long run.

[sadbeauty]

No such thing as friend zone. Your d! ck is not the most important thing in the world. It's unfortunate that her bf is scum and it sucks that you revealed your feelings for her but she's obviously not into you that way. You can wait around for her if you want to, but you're better off with moving on.

[gonyr]

Well you can't be in her head, or make he feel a certain way. I wouldn't wait for her. That doesn't mean it won't work out in the future, but you should live your own life now.

[TheatreDreamer]

Sadly you will have to move on. Just like every bad romance movie out there girls tend to not realize what they could have had until its gone. It will be hard but you will be better for it.

[LittleSally]

Hahaha Hell no!

She's obviously not into you and is week minded - hence keeps going back to the familiar and 'safe' choice...

[ajr92]

Never wait for anyone in this kind of case.

She's made her choice; if she regrets it later, that's her problem.

[TheLoverNotHater]

Like I've said before: Never submit yourself to the affairs of the stupid. If she comes to you for help, do so. But right now she's being an idiot, and you shouldn't waste your time and energy fretting over it.

[john2]

Nah brah, cuz after a while they'll be a couple of girls that want to talk to that you'll want to get to know, but your hope for that girl will make you miss out on her. The one you miss out on might be top shelf too.

[DaddyRollingStone]

No way, fuck her.

She refused you so now you can turn your back on her. Im sure you would love to be uer shoulder to cry on but there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Give up on her and find a girl that appreciates you.

[MrKaneda]

Don't wait for her, you'll never be an option for saying in her eyes if you're always chasing after her. Maybe if you date a few girls she'll realize what she's missing when she sees you being successful and independent.

[dupe666]

Wait for what?
She doesn't give a shit about you...

[crowplane]

Move on bro. Been there done that. It sucks but you gotta press on and look for a girl who cares... good luck.

[Prof_Don]

Hell no! No waiting! Go fully pursue other girls! :)

[Kshppatel]

You should move on. Clearly she doesn't want you so why bend over backwards for a girl who doesn't want you?

[iAmNotSkilled1]

nooooo , sorry man :/ i wouldn't do that but if u think that she deserves to be waited , then its ur choice.