Guys, would you say "suck my d" to any girl jokingly, or only to girls you actually would like to blow you?

My friend and I tease and flirt a lot. Yesterday, for the first time, he says "suck my dick" to me as a come back to something I said. He said it quietly, so I said WHAT'D you say?, because I was kind of caught off guard. He answers, "oh you heard me", all cocky. We joke about sex a lot but he's never specifically told me to do anything to him before. Is he just goofing around or is he dropping hints? If he says it again, which response would be better, a sarcastic "you wish!" or a flirty "play your cards right and we'll see?"
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  • Personally no, but who cares. In general, if a guy were to say that and then claim he's joking, he would still be ok with it if you sucked it anyway. I'd like the play your cards right and we'll see. It incentivizes him more which will motivate him to come on to you more if he really wants you, at the same time though, that could give him the implication that you will do it if he tries dating you, that will lead to him expecting it from you, and if you don't want to do it, could ultimately become an awkward situation for you two, and then your friendship could collapse and so begins the apocalypse. 'Flirtationships' are always fun, but can end messy if one party is just flirting and the other is really interested (and yes, he probably sounds interested)

    • Oh, I think he knows I'm down.

    • If you're both down, put yourself in a setting where something can happen

    • That's what I'm working on now!

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  • It may have been a joke. It might have been a cocky flirty vibe thing though too.

    Main thing is if you like him, you go for it. Ask him out, nothing hotter than the girl initiating.

    Could you help me out with my question pls?

    It's about a female friend who flirted a little and I probably would want to suggest she suck my d!

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1370383-is-this-flirty-female-friend-into-me-am-i-into-her-why-do-i

    Would appreciate your advice pls!!

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  • Haha both good comebacks lol XD
    But which one you choose is up to you and how you feel about him. The second one leans more towards you sort of liking him as more than a friend and the first is funny but still flirty. If you guys joke about sexual things a lot, I wouldn't read that much into it but who knows, he may have a secret crush on you.

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  • I wouldn't say that to any girl, even one I was in a relationship with. It's just not good form. It's not the way you go about it, and I think it would be counter productive to say the least.

  • He wants it but what about you?

    • I do. That's why I'm hoping he's serious.

    • You don't have to wait for him. Tell him you want to give him a bj

    • Um, and then I just rip his belt off and get to it? Lol! Doesn't he get some say in this? I'm not about to rape him!

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  • Do you actually want to do it? If yes the second one will make him go wild, if not then don't get his hopes up.

  • Only to girls I like to blow me

  • it doesn't mean anything seroius. usually guys say that as a comeback to other guys. but he was being cocky so i dont think that he was being serious.

    • It was weird to me that he said it half under his breath, so only i could hear. He def didn't want our friends to hear him, so that made me think it was more flirty than smartass. And then he wouldn't repeat it but made sure I knew what he'd said.

  • I throw it out there and see what happens, as long as I don't offend, if she thinks it's funny then win, if she actually does it then win.