There are two ways this could be working. Firstly, your guy just loves your body, and wants to see it in all its splendour, choosing clothes to highlight it. That's quite flattering, really - it means he clearly fancies you like crazy! There's nothing bad about feeling sexy and attractive to your partner, and it's not objectification provided you are in control. Guys will be guys, and sometimes it's fun to drive them almost insane with a pair of heels and the right dress. I'm all for reminding them how lucky they are on occasion.
However, if you feel out of control, or uncomfortable with the outfits he's selecting, then there's something wrong. It's important that you feel loved for more than your body - that you know that your man will still think you're the most beautiful girl in the world when you come in sweating from the gym in trackie bottoms and a ratty old tee! You should never feel that you're just a collection of attractive bodyparts, to be paraded around to massage his ego. It sounds to me like he's crossing the line that divides complimenting you on your sartorial choices and treating you like a mannequin he can dress up, a trophy to make his friends envious. If that's true, then he may need a short, sharp reminder that you're not a piece of meat.
Also, it's very important that women get to choose the image that they want to present to the world. Whether we disagree with it or not, the way we appear affects the way that we're judged by others. Therefore it's very important that you feel you have final say over your 'look', and decide what is appropriate for various occasions. There are times when it's inappropriate - or even downright dangerous - to be wearing the wrong type of clothes. Turning up to a job interview for a management position in a tiny mini and a boob tube might see you lose out on important opportunities. Still worse, wearing very little when you know you're going to have to travel somewhere by yourself late at night might invite the wrong kind of attention, and land you in more serious trouble. So please be careful and stay safe!
I wouldn't worry too much, though. All you need to do is to encourage him to compliment you in a way that makes you feel attractive, and discourage the more excessive moments of bossiness and/or cross-eyed drooling!
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As with anything I can't speak for everyone. That said, any of my friends I have talked to about it and definitely myself, would love it if our wives would show their bodies. I also did not always think like that. Once upon a time I would have been very upset by the idea of another man seeing her exposed in any way. Now though,. I think we have grown closer and I have become more comfortable that she is completely dedicated to me. I've come to the mindset that as long as she includes me in whatever she wants to do, there really are no boundaries.
It may be a fantasy of many guys to be dating a hot well endowed girl who likes to flaunt her body around for others to see. It also may objectify you too much and one day he may want someone else to flaunt her body around for him.
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that sounds really weird. it's almost as if he's treating you like an object...a trophy to show off...
I would only comment on how my girlfriend should dress, if she'd wear dirty clothes or if it was noticebal in a very negative way. but I love her no matter how she looked!
and yeah...I don't show off my girlfriend...not because I don't find her beautiful...but cause it's just wrong in some way.To be honest your's guy like me but defrent is my girlfriend by nature she like attention seeking and wear revealing at the same time considered others do like wise depending on occasions and functions choose outfits.
hi i love to have my gfs flash her pussy
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