Remind yourself of the fact that it is natural for both genders to check the other gender out. It is also natural for the person that is being checked out by the other gender to love it and even to show the person that is checking them out that they are loving it. Try to make eye contact with this guy when he checks you out, give him a bit of a naughty smirk/smile. When you check out this guy make eye contact with him, check his body out while he is watching you and then look back into his eyes and give him a smile/smirk. You giving this guy the naughty smirk/smile when he checks your out is telling him your approve of him checking you out and you love it and you giving him a naughty smirk/smile when you check him out sends the message of "I just checked you out and I loved what I saw". You can also talk to this guy yourself, many guys love it when girls approach. Other things you can try is lingering eye contact, lock eye contact with this guy and hold it for about 4 seconds. Make sure it is no less than 3 seconds as he might not get the message and make sure it is no longer than 3 seconds as it may turn from being a flirty moment into an awkward one. Count the 3 seconds out in your mind slowly so you know when to look away. When you do look away give him a smirk/smile then look away. Then strait away take another glance at him but this time make it only last 1 second, make sure you still have your smirk on your face when you do this. Then leave it at that. Another flirty thing you can do to this guy is to make eye contact with him and run your hand through your hair, start at your scalp and run your hand to the end of your hair and then kind of flick your hair while looking at him with a smirk on your face. You could also make eye contact with him and gently bite your lip, however this is more of a sexual move.
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Simple, look at him straight in the eyes and smile seductively, just like this beauty:
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It might seem harsh but you have to get over this fear and lack of comfort. Shy is one thing but being closed off to every guy that looks your way will get you nowhere. Practice that beautiful smile! Practice holding your chin high to open yourself up.
What I like to do is when they look at you smile to yourself like they gave you a huge compliment!
next time just give him steady eye contact. remember the goal is to have a steady curious look in your eyes- nothing seductive, dont be the first one to look away. guys and people in general will feel more comfortable around you if you dont break eye contact but instead return their interest with steadiness and curiousity. be yourself
I'm a little shyer around guys at first so I do tend to look away or blush smiling at them and then look away. It depends on who's with me too. I'm absolutely mortified if my mam is with me.
Just smile and have eye contact, it's so easy and doesn't require lots of courage. Next time just force yourself to smile!
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Slight smile and look away. Perfect indicator that you like what he is doing, but that you need him to make the move.
Next time he looks at you, fight against your instincts and look back at him for a few seconds. Make a conscious effort.
Depends on what they look like. I rake my eyes over their body and smile if I do and I try not to be rude but give a curt smile and look away if I don't.
It's OK to look away, but don't look away without smiling. Make sure you do that, and to add more tuck your hair behind one ear, in a smooth motion. He'll like that
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