Wow, where do you live? Where I live, I have never heard anyone say that. I don't think anyone would care if you dated black guys.
There might be some older people or rednecks where you live who have problems with interracial dating, but that is very out-of-date. There was a story all over the news last week where a guy refused to marry an interracial couple. It caused a huge outcry. Most people couldn't believe he was so ignorant. It's the same as how people used to tell women no one would marry them if they had a job. Eventually only old people and rednecks thought that and now no one does.
It is hard when your family has opinions that are different than your about how to live your life. Don't argue with them. Just nod and smile and date who you want.
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I've gotten that same crap as well.
Although, as another poster pointed out, these folks (almost always white guys) are either older or rednecks. So if you get rejected by an old redneck in the future because of this, I would consider it to be a blessing. ;-)
okay, I've dated black guys and now the white guys that I date are sometimes kinda grossed out (I don't understand it) but they still date me. so some people may look down on it, but those who really like you will look past it.
Absolutely not. One night stand, sure; but I'd never date a girl who's been with a black guy.
This is only a problem if you don't want to get rejected by a racist.
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So, if you dated an Asian or Hispanic guy, does that also make you less "desirable" to date? Where did this feedback stem from? I have never heard of anything so ridiculous in my life. Who cares if you dated black males before? Aren't they human like the rest of us? Any guy won't care. Sorry, your family is wrong and very ill informed.
That bullsh*t. Don't even worry about it. Even if some guy decided not to date you because of something that stupid, that's probably not someone you want to be dating anyways.
i think some white guys start to feel insecure because they think you're dating guys with big d***s and they don't measure up. others are secretly turned on by it.
This is ridiculous. No offense but maybe you should start second guessing what your family tells you.
As long as they’re not dating hood rat Ebonics speaking dudes.
I am ashamed to say that you would be tainted once you dated a black guy.
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