So I told his friend that I like him, but nothing happened and it's been 2 weeks.
why is he not making a move?
If he always looks at you there's a good chance he likes you. If he acts nervous around you it really means he likes you. It also means he's shy.
Are you sure the friend you told, told him? It sounds like a classic case of being shy. Think about it this way, would you be able to walk up to him an ask him out if a friend told you he liked you? If you could, then great, but some girls wouldn't be able to. He's still not 100% sure, and he may think you're just messing with him, or he's not sure. Being shy doesn't go away if he knows you like him. It may take away some of the tension, but there's always that doubt, that chance of embarrassment.
Now you're probably feeling that same nervousness he's feeling. If you're too shy to make the move, then make it easy for him. Go up and talk to him, spend some time alone with him, make him feel comfortable around you. Or there's the net. Since you're both shy find him on facebook, talk to him a bit, see how he reacts, make him feel comfortable. Say you want to see a certain movie or go to a place, see if he suggests you both go together. Give him hints along the way and see if he finally makes the move.
If he doesn't, you might have to just make the move yourself or else you'll always wonder 'what if'.
Wow I respect you for that, if a girl did that for me especially at times when I hesitate then I will immediately throw in the towel.
But maybe he is having some personal problems, I don't know, cos any guy who is interested would show up at your door.
Sth going on his mind. Guys like waiting to make a step for such thing. They want to be sure.
He knows your feelings. So relax. Let him decide. Probably he is thinking about his feelings.
Continue your life. Just continue. If nothing comes out of it, move on.
I was in the same scenario. What happened with me is that the guy I liked was afraid of his social status, since he was popular and I was.. well.. a reject.
So you guys never went out?
No, he went out with another girl and stopped talking to me
I legit just asked the same question on here today. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1423915-we-both-like-each-other-what-is-stopping-him
Ha lol
I guess I'm not the only one with this problem.
Not at all, and I'm with you on the whole thinking he may not like me thing. Well I thought that originally but it turns out some guys act that way when they like a girl they are all different. He still acts like this but now that I know this behavior and after what mutual friends have told me I'm pretty sure he may like me. He stares at you right? Thats a big sign!
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Maybe he's too shy. Why don't you make a move yourself? Gender roles have changed now, so it's no longer a man's job to always make the first move.
I know he is shy when it comes to girls he likes. But if he KNOWS I like him, what could be stoping him?
Well... girls often don't know where to draw the line between being super friendly and showing romantic interest, and their behaviour often contradicts their thoughts.
So he may not even know you like him too.
He's just one out of those shy boys. If he's nervous he really likes you. U should ask him to hang out to make him feel comfortable. I know how does he feel.
Maybe his friend didn't tell him. Maybe he's doubtful of his friend.
For crying out loud just make the move yourself. If you try too hard justifying why he isn't doing it while you're sitting waiting for him, then you may miss out.
I'm scared maybe he doesn't like me
90% chance that's how he feels too.
He probably has no idea what to do next. Do you know if he's introverted or not?
No he's extrovert. Popular, goes out but with me he doesn't talk much
Yeah, he's shy around you and he's interested. Do you flirt with him?
No... I don't flirt
why does he have to make the move? why dont u make it instead, guys like girls with initiative
I allso thought maybe he doesn't like me... If I told his friend and nothing happened...
he is a shy man :(
I allso thought maybe he doesn't like me... If I told his friend and nothing happened...
MAYBE... You should move firstly
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