Guys, do girls who make the first move intimidate you?

[cl_517]

[Blondiee2014]

Well I would get that butterfly feeling in my stomach. For her to be making moves on me we obviously must have already established that we like each other so for someone I like making moves on me makes me feel a little nervous but in a good way. It keeps me on my toes.

[AleDeEurope]

No, it gives a better impression of her because she's willing to not give a fuck about tradition and stereotypes and to pursue what she wants, instead of just sitting and waiting, like 90% of the girls.

[cl_517]

and this is why we're platonic friends ahah :*

[AleDeEurope]

Exactly <3

[AleDeEurope]

Thanks for the MHO!

[cl_517]

you're welcome Ale!

[muspelhem_5]

No, not at all.

I know the social norm is for guys to do it, and I accept that, but I think it is very brave if women try it. It can be a scary thing to do, but it just shows that she has some drive and also the fact that she puts her heart on the line like that is both flattering and awe-inspiring to me.

[Hephaestus]

Only if the first move is pulling a gun
then I'd be a tad intimidated

[cl_517]

hhaha ohhh good! imagine! haha

[Red_Arrow]

Nope. She made the first move, then we got married.

[cl_517]

aww how cute!!

[Red_Arrow]

Thank you. :-)

[cl_517]

you're welcome :)

[Hans222]

Oh no! I'm rather shy and making first contact is my weak spot... you it would make me happy :D

[cl_517]

hah :)

[Hans222]

Haha I made a stupid typo... had to be "so it would make me happy" :D
It's getting late here in Belgium, I need to leave to go to bed (yaaaaaaaaaawns) :D

[cl_517]

see go to sleep, get some rest! :P

[404filenotfound]

Nope, I'm honestly used to it; I don't really have the greatest social skills in the world. Thankfully, I'm one lovable son of a bitch and they eventually sit me down and give me "the talk".

[Maxemeister]

Noooo. Please, I INVITE you to make the first move on the guy you like! Try it! It's a relief when it happens, trust me

[cl_517]

i've done it before lol

[Maxemeister]

Then do it again

[cl_517]

I don't like anyone at the moment lol

[Maxemeister]

lol then wait till u do

[sobg71124]

I wouldn't be comfortable with it at all. I would feel pressured/put on the spot. If I am interested in her, I will pursue her. If I am not, I won't.

[genuinlysensitive]

Actually the only people I've ever seen calling women who make the first move weird or desperate are women. The truth is most men don't care, and are actually relieved if they are shy, or they have no idea the woman likes them back.

[matheus_mb]

No, I don't think so. Girls making the first move can reserve us nice surprises actually.

[ImSuperBored]

Id prefer it. I've got an anxiety issue and it would make things SO much less troublesome for me..