When a girl says she has to check her schedule?

[Anonymous]

When you ask a girl to hang out (named a specific place and day) and she says she has to check her schedule, is she flaking?

[itssarahloveee]

Totally flaking, unless she's a business woman that hardly has a social life, that's a total flake out. If she was really interested, she would work you into her schedule.. and if she had had a huge meeting or something important that day, she probably would have remembered it since she seems to maintain a written account of what she's going to do-- the schedule. I'd just move on.

[abra_b]

Possibly, but possibly not. Sometimes people ask me to do things and I feel like I have something to do that day. I'm a bit absent minded, so I've made a habit of saying "I'll check my schedule" to avoid double booking (which I do a lot, accidentally). If you ask her again and she declines or doesn't try to suggest another time, probably yes.

[AngelLove85]

This girl my guy continues to hang out with constantly gives me this answer. I know damn well what it means and i dont think she realizes gow dangerous i can be. If she's gonna be "friends" with my guy she needs to be at least aquainted with me. im not going anywhere. I know it hurts her that im around but she knew damn well he has a girlfriend.

[Hughman]

Not flaking, but she isn't massively into you. If she was, she'd either a) flake on the day you asked for or b)she'd know if it was a really important/busy day so can tell you up front about her available time.

[0llie]

I know some pretty busy people, who have many activities so it may be true, depending on what your girls does. But if she's not interested, it may be just a polite way of brushing your off. Depends, my friend;) Try to ask around if the girl's really so busy.

[no_thnx]

Well,case 1 : she does like you,but playing hard to get.

case 2: probably easily predictable-she is not interested.

I'm personally not a kind of girl who'd say things like that to make you wonder and consequently like me even more,but I know some girls who would.

At the same time,she might as well not be interested at all.

I'd say ask her again,and if she doesn't give you a direct answer,leave it.

[CDenatale]

It is possible. I think this could go either way. When will you see her again? You'll definitely know then if she doesn't bring it up.

[Asker]

Tommorow. In fact I'll likely see her every day this week.

[Paris13]

Two Sides to Her Sorry Story, Good or Could... Be Bad.
Good Luck. xx

[greeneyedgal]

Yes, she is "politely" declining the invitation.