When first reading the beginning of your question I completely related to you. With anyone you like, which may sound weird by the way, you will most likely always feel like your not good enough for them. It's simply because you want to make sure your not acting or going to say something to him to make him not like it. You want to leave a good impression which is so understandable. Girls almost always over-analyze. And just to let know, this will defiantly not be the first time you will feel like this when it comes to a guy you have a crush on.
Now to the second part. You may hear this so much and it may cringe you to hear it. But you "really need to work on your self-esteem". If it means getting more fit then go for it but don't starve yourself please! It just makes it harder to keep the weight off. And next, please stop cutting yourself Hun, your damaging yourself. Believe it or not, that's not helping your self-esteem at all. If anything it's making it much worse. Personally how I deal with problems I just write them out and rip them up once I feel better about them. Mind you, a lot of my thoughts end up in scribbles but you know what I mean.
To sum this up, cause I realize it's getting kind of long, if you like this guy enough try talking to him. The girls he hangs out with may not be the girls he's into. I know popularity is a big thing is high school/ Jr. High so it may just be that. Been there, don't want to go back lol. Hope it helps and keep an update :)
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