Like what first impressions do you get?
What do guys generally think about girls they see at clubs?
It all depends on the guy who is there and how the girls dress...
If it's a macho guy who uses his genitals as a brain function... he'll go for the sluttiest dressed and drunk girl or easiest girl to get in his pants, the others... are just other possibilities if all else fails...
If it's a christian guy, he will think they are all sluts and will all be damned in the flames of hell...
But If it's a more decent guy (like me) it's the girls who seem to have more integrity in their dressing that attract them. As they are on the lookout for a relationship and to get to know you as a person and not only your flesh.
SO, My first impressions...
I look around and see the girl at the bar half naked, drunk and being felt up by three guys... it's a definitely bad impression
I see a group of girls and one of them looks quite nice in the batch... I consider approaching them and talking to the girl...
It really just comes down to how who you behave and how you dress...
Whatever you choose to wear and how much drunk you are will attract different types of guys... so first impressions comes in different ways... you'd have to be more specific on how you dress realy...
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They aren't for me really... several reasons really, including the fact I'm not even into that whole scene, so clash of interests I guess. A lot of girls who go to clubs will always get hit on by desperate guys hoping for an easy fix for the night, drunk girl = prey... The girls are also the type who are the popular social clique who are bitchy backstabbers always requiring attention. I'm just generalising, but a lot of them are there just to flaunt it... sad in a way really. Maturity levels also seem to drop in those places... not were I'd look for a date really, I'm sure not every girl is the same, but I've had night out with girls before and the whole time they had guys coming over just trying to kiss them, it was pathetic really.
When guys see girls in clubs dressed provocatively they just think about having sex with you. It isn't like they can see you are serious girlfriend material. Girls think that the more sexy they dress and the more attention they get, the greater the chances are that they will find a boyfriend but reality is that most guys want girls that are a lady in the street. They want you to keep the freaky side for them to enjoy privately.
Now, of course, if you are not one of those girls dressed in a short dress or a low cut dress or a too tight dress and you are not bumping and grinding with guys or girls on the dance floor and you are not putting on one of those fake-lesbian shows that girls love to do these days, who knows, but a lot of girls at clubs are just trying to out do each other for looking what they think is sexy, but a lot of guys think is slutty. Guys will want to have sex with you but they won't want to have you for a girlfriend.
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I don't know what men think, but a lot of the time when I go to a club it's to have fun. I have never gone to pick up a guy... :S I enjoy dancing with my friends, and I like to look nice so I feel confident dancing. I don't really like when guys randomly try to dance because I am enjoying myself. If they ask first, that's different and I probably will give them at least one dance.
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Nowadays? I think a lot of them look good but they aren't my type; I think they aren't passed their party days like I am and even if I tried to pursue them they wouldn't be into the same things I'm into and they would bring a lot of kid sh*t and drama into my life, so I just watch them shake their ass on the dance floor while I drink my Corona at the bar with my friends.
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well the first guy was right for the majority of men think that way when they go to clubs most men think that anyways and some men ya go in and still think with the brains and not there (head) really if your looking for a guy it can and more so is not the best way to meet a guy.
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I don't go to clubs to meet women. But if I did it would depend on the way she presents herself. If she is dressed nicely or if she is wearing cloths with holes in them lol. And the way she carrys herself, is she loud, is she mad, is she happy, etc...
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" yess easy pussy" no offense or anything but 99% in the club are sluts well at least they act like it even if they have a boyfriend .( here comes the hate mail)
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I think they're usually slutty/skanky. I like to think a girl who deserves respect wouldn't be grinding on random guys on the dance floor or acting like a stripper.
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They arnt my type - I find drunk girls to be really unattractive and a bit of a turn off. But that's me..
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I think "Can you hit it... yes you can, can I hit it... yes I can" lol
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I often think to myself how many girls will say no to a dance until one says yes.
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i generally see club girls as nasty pieces of meat.
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its like ,"hey you check tht girl out,she is so hot"
and the other guy will be like,"yah she has great assets"
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Girls who club aren't really my type. But once in a while I see a gem or two.
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"I'd hit that."
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I usually think "Dude, I really shouldn't talk to her. I'll make and ass out of myself."
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i just keep checking them...and finally go and ask few of them!
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SEX! rejection ! more drink!
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