What are 10 things a girl should know about guys?
What are 10 things a girl should know about guys?
Lol ok, let me see here.
#1-Guys are lazy, incredibly lazy. When we have a reason to do something, we will do it till its done, but its not easy to get us to do it.
#2-Even if we don't admit it, ego is a huge thing to us. If you want something and you say "oh I guess you can't do it" We don't have to prove anything to you, we just get angry. If you want help with anything try yourself, and then act like you can't do it, or do it wrong. Then we try to act all macho or skilled and we do it ourselves.
#3-Girls think guys have no trouble asking girls out, just ask. We think that girls should have no trouble, and its a pain we always have to ask. We think that girls are gorgeous and if they are attracted to us, they should just say so, not like we would say no. Generally if we guys do ask you out its either because, you have given enough hints that you like us too, or we are fed up with waiting for hints and either want to go out with you, or move on.
#4-Guys are very possessive, to us there is an ours, we don't like to share. We only share with those we like, for girls when they are very cute, or we have feelings for them. Or both.
#5-Guys will have NO CLUE what you are trying to hint at, unless it is very obvious, and even if it is very obvious we believe girls trap us into things. If its too obvious its a trap, if its not obvious enough we completely miss it.
#6-The quickest way to a mans heart is not actually through his jeans, its not actually the way. We don't admit it but compliments are number 1. We like to get compliments, but not too many, then it seems like a trap XD.
#7-Trust me, no matter how much fun it sounds to you, getting haircuts, watching chick flicks, spending time together talking, a dinner together, and doing chores around the house DO NOT sound like the best thing ever to us XD. We will watch chick flicks if we are dating, trying to impress the girls and all, but never if we are already together, for sure. Haircuts and stuff actually bother us, we hate it. Spending time just talking bores many, its just not fun. Spending time talking with normal movies is way better. Dinner together is a lot of work, and we have to pay attention, for those tricky traps XD. If we have a job we do not want chores too, if you don't have a job and we do, we expect you to do the chores, if you live together. We work, and we expect you to as well. Unless we are gentlemen, which many are not. I am btw :D
#8-We hate reading, and any work. Don't ask us to look at something cute, or funny, its just not worth it to us.
#9-We are very SIMPLE MINDED, we do not think any deeper than the obvious, unless we think its one of those traps XD.
#10-Remembering anniversaries is normal, remembering the first day we kissed for a guy is not, we do not remember these thing, we just don't. We hardly remember the day we started to date.
You have no clue how many times I redid this trying to get it to fit, as it is I have 5 characters left. out of 3000.
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1. Guys generally have a very hard time reading the "signs" that girls try to use to convey interest. This leads to confusion among the sexes because the girl assumes he's just not interested because he hasn't made a move, when in fact he thinks she's just being friendly/polite.
2. If a guy offers to take you out on a date and pay for a meal, he doesn't want to see you eat an appetizer salad and be full after that. If we're paying, it's because we can afford to. Don't be afraid to eat hearty. We want to see that.
3. Guys can be very judgmental about what we see in girls, and the girl who, after a few drinks, is grinding on guys at the club dance floor isn't seen as girlfriend material. She's seen as one night stand material.
4. Just because you're nice to look at doesn't mean we want to approach you. There's a lot of fashion trends and looks girls have that are aesthetically pleasing but at the same time give off a bad impression, such as making you seem high maintenance or like a skank.
5. Modern guys respect strength, intelligence, and independence. We like seeing these features in girls. Be your own person, not just another face in the crowd.
6. Many guys love tomboys. They're fun, they generally understand us better, they keep the drama to a minimum, and the fact that they share common interests is always a plus.
7. Understand that, no matter how wonderful you are, no matter how good in bed you are, and no matter how gorgeous you are, your boyfriend will always look when a hot girl passes by. He's just looking. Deal with it. It's when you start making drama over it that he starts to consider more than just looking.
8. Most men don't have the patience for drama. Keep it to a minimum. Don't ask loaded questions, and don't expect him to be able to read your mind or pick up on your hints. These are all things that lead to severe arguments.
9. Just because he's out with the guy friends or doesn't want you seeing what's in his email or phone doesn't mean he's cheating. Lots of men just like drawing a line and keeping some things theirs and theirs alone because it makes them feel like they still have a measure of freedom.
10. The fact that you have a small butt or you don't like your boobs doesn't make you unattractive. The fact that you constantly whine and bitch and complain about your small butt or your imperfect boobs makes you unattractive.
1. Guys love blowjobs and get so embarressed over things like them not bein' able to get you in the mood or gettin it up.. They hate in the middle of you givin em' head to just lay a big fart or somethin' like that.. So don't do it.. Although...
2. They do like tomboys so there's no need to dress all girly for them, although they do like you to look like you take care of yourself..So clean hair, face and body.. Shaved but wear whatever, not skimpy when you're around HIS mates cause he WILL get jealous. Also, no need for make-up after you've reeled him in.. (my boyfriend begged me to stop wearin it)
3. Guys are emotionally 2 years younger than their actual age.. So be careful if your 18 dating an 18 year old, they are emotionally 16.. FACT
4. Guys like to know they're strong and if they show you their emotional side, you're lucky..
5. A lot of guys will slag black people or white people or gay people because they're insecure wheter they'll admit it or not..
6. Never say anything about their family..
7. Guys actually do like to cuddle.. (in a relationship)
8. Guys are easily broken.. But generally unlike us, when they're broken they don't cry, they get mad or get rebound..
9. Guys don't like being treated like kids for too long..
10. They are easily understood, everything in moderation with a guy is perfect..! Cuddly but not clingy, Emotional but not Sappy, Neat but not Ocd etc.. :)
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you want to make your guy happy. they are all different but have same traits. don't be messy but an over clean freak. cook that man some food,they like to eat! he has a rough day? rub his shoulders and listen,then had some witt lol. Be adventurous and playful inbed. Play his video games or whatever he likes with him even if you don't know how he would enjoy teaching you. His friends may suck, but give them their respect he must like them for some reason haha. do NOT hit your guy ever, kicking private parts is NOT funny. If he says he doesn't like something don't 2nd guess cause he does not like it. Don't nag men! its like literally slamming a door, talk calmy and even add some jokes to the situation. if you want something then just say it! only reason we know they want sex is cause their d*** shows us, we don't have something to point things out haha. Follow his wishes, if he doesn't like you hangin with guys in privatee then dont, just let that run both ways though. Don't lie to them. Oh and just cause they don't have a facial expression when you neglect his feelings doesn't mean he isn't hurting. a lot of girls follow story book men "be romantic, be clingy. Shower me with gifts, don't say the wrong thing" well he doesn't expect you to buy him guns every month so why expect him to buy diamonds! basically be giving, understanding, witty, don't play dumb, honest, hardworking, etc and you will be fine.
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let me begin with one comment. all men are diffrent. not one person in this world are the same. they may even have diffrent thoughts and feelings from the next guy you will meet. but with saying that, this is what I think you should know.
-men are emotional, weither or not they show you there feelings.
-they are visual creatures, so they like to observe, even if what you think there observing you fnd inapropriate.
-they will never beable to read your mind, no matter how nice it would be sometimes, there just not capable. just like we can't read theres. so tell them what you want, don't wait for it for it to just click in there heads.
-dont try to force them into anything.
-they like to be respected.
-they need your reasurance, even if they won't admit it to you.
-it hurts them as much as it hurts us to be rejected.
-its sometimes hard for men to tell you how they feel. about anything. but they will eventually warm up to you. so don't take it personal when they can't word it in the begining.
-men are complicated, just like we are. so there is really no reason to get frustrated if you can't figure them out.
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1. Learn to bake cakes and make one for scratch to us on Valentines day or another special occasion, our hearts will melt!
2. Nagging. It doesn't work. Don't chase us around thinking that if you shout something often enough it will sink in. It wont. Either we will comply just to shut you up without learning anything or we will get our distance.
3. We like our distance and sometimes the silence of our own thoughts, from my observations girls get really panicky/bothered if a guy isn't calling as much, likes some personal space sometimes, or is content to ride a silent patch with you once in a while without the need for some epic intimate emotional bonding. Try silence once in a while, really...then maybe you'll hear the quiet subtle beauty that we hear of just being with someone we like/love without always needing to fill it with noise.
4. A little chase is fine, but don't make us chase you needlessly, then it just feels like a wild Goose chase and we get frustrated and even fed up. The whole fun of a little chase is the understanding that you eventually want to be caught and we want to do the catching, but a chase without the catch is just allot of pointless running and effort. Know when to 'allow' yourself to be snagged by that guy you want.
5. Communication is key, if your guy isn't doing it entirely for you in bed, let him know, help him find what you like so he can do it. If your angry/upset over something/him don't just stew around the place playing little games expecting him to figure it out through the power of love or some psychic nonsense, tell him your feeling crap and LET him try and be there for you. I've had girlfriends who were moody and distant when upset, who pretended they wanted the opposite of my support and comfort...all it did was push me away. Don't do it to your guys.
6. Don't play games. Once a guy is in a relationship, he doesn't want to play games, and most of them really don't want to play games to get into a relationship either. Just use common sense really.
7. Sometimes its okay to make the first move. I know its traditional for guys do do everything but if you really like a guy and he is unaware or you don't think he is going to do anything, you do it, it needn't be anything drastic, just let him know your interested and/or its fine for him to proceed. Too many potentially good things are lost because old social norms consign them to a needless end before they started.
8. We like our friends. For guys our best mates really are our best mates. I don't know how girls do things and I hear allot of stories, true or false, but for guys our best mates have been there for years, we act the way we do around them not because we are being dumb guys but because it is bonding and it cuts down heavily on needless drama. You may not like our friends but respect that we do.
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1. Monogomy is not natural. It goes against all our biological programming, and it takes work. That's not a reflection on your value. It's just a fact of maleness, and you need to learn to deal with it.
2. You are a sex object to us. Biology dictates that your femaleness be one of the primary ways in which we perceive you and relate to you. That doesn't mean you can't also be valued for many other things, and it doesn't reduce your value in any respect. You can be an amazing and highly respected professional colleague, an awe-inspiring athlete, a genius, an indispensable friend, a trusted adviser, but you can't not be a female as well.
3. We are emotionally vulnerable, and you are the number one threat to that vulnerability. Therefore you scare the hell out of us, and we will often put up defenses that don't make sense to you (if you really mean no harm ...)
4. Everyone experiences jealousy, but excessive control and abuse is not normal. Saying "I like your hair long" is fine. Saying "You're not allowed to cut your hair" is a big red flag. Men will respect you more if you refuse to put up with abuse.
5. Men grieve and worry differently than women. That doesn't mean they're suppressing their feelings. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with them. You don't need to fix them or draw them out or help them get in touch with their feelings. You just need to give them time and space.
6. Sometimes a one word answer is all that's needed. We're not ignoring or dismissing you when we get right to the point. We're just answering the question.
7. The saying that "porn tells lies about women and tells the truth about men" is true. It's fine if you want to act conservative and proper in public, but behind closed doors, we really do like that stuff.
8. Food and sex aren't our only priorities, but they are always on the priority list.
9. Just "letting" us won't keep us interested for long. We need to feel wanted, needed, and desired too. That's true in the bedroom and in general.
10. Some of us really couldn't care less about sports. -
Can't say this applies to all guys but
10: Some of us actually like decisiveness and assertiveness in a girl or woman. A girl who knows what she wants or doesn't want and is willing to say it up front is actually great, saves a lot of wasted time. Also, many of us won't freak out if you ask us out, we find it difficult to read the hints girls drop and it makes life easier if a girl just says she wants us or not. Also, tell us when we make you mad before you feel like you are going to erupt like a volcano, generally we listen better.
9: We do have emotions, we aren't made of stone, we can be and are hurt, we just try not to show it or let it control us, but sometimes we do want to talk to our girl about our hopes and our disapointments. It doesn't make us less manly or gay.
8: We think about sex, a lot, can't help it, it's the way we are wired. But better men don't let their urges rule them, they have them, but they control them. Don't think us animals unless we let our urges rule us.
7: We don't like to be toyed with or strung along, if you don't want us tell us, don't lead us on if you don't want the attention, and if get tired of us just say it and move on, please don't waste our time being indecisive.
6: Every guy is different, we are not all alike and we do not all think alike. Don't paint us with broad brush because you've been jilted in life by a jerk, or several jerks. Some of us try to be better people.
5: Don't say you love us unless you truly mean it, it hurts like hell, see number 7.
4: Some of us like independent women, we want our girl to "need ME" but not "need me", we want to be important, helpful and valued and irreplacable, but we want a girl that can manage without us.
3: we get shy too, we don't know what you are thinking and we get scared you won't like us will reject us or freak out when we say we like you.
2: even though we can be direct and short doesn't mean we are thoughtless unsophisticated oafs, some of us do think a lot about emotional issues but have difficulty verbalizing our thoughts, see number 3.
1: Even if we seem like we don't care sometimes doesn't mean we don't, most of us love our girl and would do just about anything for her even if it meant taking a bullet. But sometimes we don't know what to do and when we don't have a clue as to what we need to do we get angry, not at you, but at the situation. Try not to take it personally, but if we get out of control tell us we need to calm down. -
I'm not sure if these would be true for most men or just me but here they are
1. We love touching women. And this does not have to be sexual at all. Holding hands, hugs, cuddling, etc. It's awesome.
2. We're just as emotional as women, we're just better at not showing it. We mostly keep them inside ourselves
3. We are terrified by being rejected if we actually want someone. Some guys just want to sleep around so they take whoever they can get first, so they don't seem scared. Any guy interested in a relationship can be paralyzed by the thought that the girl he wants doesn't and will not ever want him
4. We have a deep sense of honor. I'm sure you've heard of the Bro Code. No one wrote that thing out, it's instinct for us to know what's wrong and right. Some guys are total d-bags and don't care but some people are criminals and murderers. There's always some people who break the rules
5. No matter how good the girl is, no matter what they do for him or how much they love each other, every guy (and I mean absolutely every guy) will have thoughts of other girls. And you cannot stop that. And if you can't handle that, become a lesbian because we will think of other girls. It doesn't mean that we will go out and cheat on you with some other girl, but we will think about them. We might even want to if they're pretty and appealing enough but I personally would never cheat. If I make a commitment I intend to keep it and I will think about it, but I will never act on it.
6. We're simple creatures. Well maybe not simple but we're just as complicated as you are. We might be different genders but we are all human beings. We all have desires, fears, joys, and dreams and they may all be unique but we have them too.
7. Chivalry is dead. Because women killed it. I honestly think men would be chivalrous if it weren't for women acting the way they do. I do think that equality is very important. I just said, we're all human beings even if our genders are different but frankly our genders are different and men like doing certain things for women. So don't demand it but don't expect it either, just let him be himself and hope he does it on his own.
8. We don't like it when you demand we text first. We want you to want us too. Saying you want us to text you first all the time makes us feel like you never want to talk, that you're just willing to when we ask
9. We will watch just about whatever you want us to watch as long as you watch what we want to watch too. It's all about compromise. So we'll watch stuff like House Hunters with you if you watch the game with us when it's on.
10. And this is the biggest one for me. We hate hearing about your ex boyfriends. Firstly, you sound like a whore telling us what you've done with him. Second, you probably haven't done that stuff with us so we're saddened. Third, you'd never let us talk about our exes to you so STOP IT. Fourth, we just don't care. You're our girl now and that's all that matters to us -
1) Guys love looking at and checking out lingerie (for you) (though many won't admit it!)
2) Guys wonder about their finances (a lot) and wonders how he's going to feed you and clothe you in the months/years to come
3) Guys often wonder if the girl he's with is right for him or the right person he feels he should be with. If you're in the last category he'll miss you every night and day
4) Guys, apart from having good days also have their bad days and can throw tantrums like a girl on PMT
5) Some guys are shy and not good at getting to know girls. Those that are weak in the department don't like to admit it
6) Guys love their gadgets. Their love for gadgets is sacred and sometimes overrides the love for you
7) Guys also love their pets. If you don't like the reptiles or exotic pets he has and such, that's generally considered your problem and not his
8) Not all guys looking for a partner are about sex...some wanna connect on a higher mental/spiritual level with their partners
9) We can/like to cook though we think women who cook are the greatest
10) When away from home, we don't like our things rummaged through in our room and we don't like things moved to someplace we don't know about (especially if its being cleaned up) -
10 Most of us think about sex very often, but it's not the only thing important to us.
9 Not all of us will cheat on you. Anyone who says otherwise (male or female) is either cheating on you, cheating on one of your friends, or planning to do something else that involves cheating.
8 Not all of us will lie to you. Most of us will sneak in the occasional small-time lie here and there, but some of us avoid the big lies. Anyone who says otherwise is lying about something.
7 Yes, we were in fact fantasizing about the waitress and the random girl on the subway and that friend-of-a-friend who was at the party with us the other night. No, this does not mean we are falling out of love with you. See #9.
6 People like to feel useful. In many cultures, men are expected to be useful at certain things. This explains why we try to fix the toilet before calling a plumber and we consult the map and try to figure it out ourselves before you tell that complete stranger we're lost, helpless tourists.
5 We can do dishes, iron shirts, and take care of kids. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to weasel out of doing chores. Unless he works at least 60 hours a week and you don't, tell him to man up. You do have some natural advantages, though, e.g. breastfeeding.
4 Yes, we can cry. No, you can't watch, unless it's something unquestionably tough like hearing an octogenarian veteran talk about his comrades who were killed in the war.
3 Most of us think girls on the covers of your magazines are underage and kinda scrawny. We'd rather have Marilyn Monroe than Kate Moss. There are exceptions to this rule, of course.
2 We like it when you act interested in us. You like it when we act interested in you. Why would we be any different?
1 Men are not all the same. We are not all [insert pop-psychology catchphrase here]. Like, duh. -
This is my own opinion and based on myself...and its in no particular order. if it doesn't refer to you just remember everyone is different
-we would rather females just be up front because very rarely do we realize the hints that you think are so obvious
-we cannot read minds so please do not expect us to because you will be disappointed
- we are shy too and and like to be met half way with things
-we like to be respected like everyone should
-guys are emotional even if they do not admit and we love support and interest in what we do
-we are emotionally challenged so I is difficult for us to tell you how we truly feel so it may take some time so be patient and supportive
-we both can get hurt by words and actions, just because we do not show it does not mean the pain isn't there so watch what ya do and say to us
-many times seeing our girl happy makes us happy, it doesn't mean we have no interest or lack depth but instead we look at the happiness we bring and do not pay attention to how we do it (this is why we always do what you want and when you ask us we say whatever you want)
-not always but most men are on the rational/logical side while not all but a lot of females tend to be on the emotional side of things, which is why we often cannot see where you are coming from
-men are just as complicated as women in our own right, which is why we have trouble figuring each other out -
1. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
2. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
3. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
4. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
5. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
6. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
7. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
8. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
9. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
10. If he seems like a good guy for longer than the assholes you've been with before, he's a good guy.
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As much as you want to talk about past relationships, zip the lip. When you tell a guy you are still good friends with an ex, that translates to, "we still hook up occasionally."
Always wait to hear how many people they've slept with before you reveal your numbers. Anything above 10 is generally considered slutty, and anything below 5 is generally considered a lie.
Every guy has one "dorky" hobby; some guys play computer games like Everquest, others build paper airplanes. While I know you're desperate to change them, let them have this one thing, it will keep them sane.
They don't like your drunken alter ego. If he's really nice he will hold your hair back while you puke, but you are still the girl who puked.
Never walk into the bathroom without knocking first, there are some things that guys just don't want us to see (or smell). If they are in there for more then 10 minutes you should wait about 20 before you walk through that door.
If you haven't heard the expression, it goes something like this, "Bros before hoes." "Don't criticize a friend of your man unless he brings it up first."
Try not to go through their sh*t. Once you do, don't tell them.
Guys like compliments too. If you tell them you like their shirt, chances are they will remember and wear that shirt again.
If they smell like pot, they've probably been smoking. If they smell like booze, they've probably been drinking. Put your interrogation flashlight away.
If a guy asks you to chill, it's okay to bring a friend the first time—from then on, save the sidekick for parties and other social events.
Good Luck.
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where to begin.
1) We have creatures that live in our pants called "Penis" and "testicles" but some men like to name then differently.
2) We do not belong in a kitchen, That is a place where the women live.
3) Well known frazes guys say:
"Get back in the kitchen"
"NO! I'm not getting you a watch, there is a clock on the cooker"
"Put this in your mouth"
"where the hell is my dinner?"
"Put this back in your mouth"
"Get me a beer"
"Get me another beer"
"WOMAN! BEER!"
" *shakes empty beer bottle* "
...etc
4) We enjoy a right cracking set of knockers and a perfect ass.
5) We prefer our women naked not dressed.
6) We do not like it when you look in our man drawers (and I don't mean our pants... we like that)
7) We hate you a little bit more every time you touch the tv remote or radio in the car.
8) We require blow jobs. Daily!
9) We hate going shopping with women, Unless there is a reward before and after.
10) If you follow these rules, then we will respect you.
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Sorry guys for spilling the beans...here you go:
1) We masturbate a lot
2) We are emotional but usually only show it when we are alone -> uh, not when we are doing #1 though!
3) Whether we are with a supermodel or greatly in love or just married, we always think about doing it with other girls (most of us just don't act on it).
4) We are afraid of rejection and commitment...about 50-50...
5) We lie to get sex
6) We never lie to get love
7) We are capable of doing one thing at a time but that one thing will be done properly. Give us more tasks and the work will suffer on all fronts.
8) We like fake boobs but love real boobs -> in fact, anything that looks good that is natural is a major turn-on for most guys (nice_guy7 excluded).
9) The day we stop wanting to have sex with you is the day that relationship is done -> unless you want to continue in celibacy.
10) I'll leave the most important one to the end (every woman should know this about every man): Oral sex is the single most important item on a man's menu. If you are good at it and like it, then ladies, you'll be happy. If you are not good at it, and worse, if you don't like it, you will only find happiness with another woman.
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1) Don't ask us more than 5 questions everyday, its really annoying.
2) You should know the schedule of our favorite teams so you know when not to bother us. Don't even bother us during the pre and post game report.
3) The refrigerator should never be out of our favorite beverage(s).
4) We enjoy fantasizing about having sex with many different women, even when we're with you.
5) No matter how many times we say your beautiful,hot,sexy...etc, you will never be considered to be better looking than how Britney Spears used to look (for example the way she looked in the music video I'm a slave for you).
6) We enjoy waking up to music and we don't want you to turn it off until we get out of bed.
7) Don't speak to us in the morning until we have had our breakfast.
8) Don't ever hit us, we will get a restraining order against you. Or we will beat you to a pulp.
9) We love leaving come on your faces in the morning while you sleep.
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1. Most dudes under 30 don't really want to be monogamous.
2. Most dudes think they have to lie and cheat in order to get sex. Untrue and harmful though it is.
3. Dudes cheat in order to get a variety of chicks. She doesn't have to be better in any way.
4. Dudes are extremely direct and don't read minds. Tell a dude directly what you want, better results that way.
5. Dudes talk about actions and much of our conversation will be about what should be done and rarely about how anything made us feel. Dudes want to get to the point about what is to be done.
6. Dudes don't need love to have sex.
7. Dudes like porn and don't understand why they shouldn't and never will.
8. Actions always speak louder than words. "I love you" doesn't mean crap unless you see consistent honesty & caring.
9. Dudes do not like to be "trained" and he will more than likely rebel eventually unless he's a schlub. Rebelling can mean opposition, breaking up, or cheating.
10. The holy grail for most dudes is to settle down with a bi chick who brings home another girl for 3somes on a regular basis. Stable relationship + variety. A win-win!
Lot of good lists here. -
1. Men are driven by their egos
2. His ego is boosted by being with a woman that other men find attractive (this is why men like thin women)
3. He will lie to get laid
4. He will lie to make you happy (as in stay out of trouble)
5. His emotions are not connected to his "lower region"
6. He will find his identity in his job (women find it with their kids)
7. He will not be able to read your mind, (if you say something is OK, he will think it is OK)
8. He does not realize that you think he should be able to read your mind (anticipate your desires)
9. Men and women think differently. We do have a one track mind. We CAN NOT talk to you and watch a football game at the same time. We do not mean to ignore you, but our brains do not work like yours, it is physically impossible for us to pay attention to two things at one time.
10. We do not know how women multi task (do two things at one time)
PS. Kitty is wrong (sorry Kitty, someone had to say it, no offense). Most men are more alike than different, eventually.
Good Luck,
James -
1.) We think like organized boxes so we can only concentrate on one thing at a time...So when you "need to talk" have him turn off the tv, radio or anything eles he's doing so he can listen to you
2.) When we say we just want friendship or she's just a friend 4/5 times its the truth (yes there are some a-holes that do lie about that but not all guys)
3.) The majority of guys don't officially grow up until their late twenty's or early thirty's so be patcheint with us and our immaturity
4.) the majority of us want a real, poper relationship but don't know how so if you are our first real relationship you have to hold our hand and treat us like little kids...(I really hated to admit that guys)
5.) Guys do have a "code of honor" and follow it to the letter
6.) Guys have the ability to turn off our brain or zone out with out having a single thought running through our heads so when you "ask what are you thinking about?" and we say "nothing" its the truth
7.) you want us to respect your privacy so please respect ours ex don't be snooping in our email accounts, cell phone records, or bank accounts.
8.) We need our space too...So please respect that
9.) we check out other girls because as long as we are guys we'll be attracted to the opposite sex so don't get mad if/when you catch us (as long as we're discreet about it then let it go)
10.) it takes us a while to open up emotionally with anyone so don't rush us to do so you'll only push us away -
I hate to generalize, but since all generalizations are true...
1. Guys your age think about sex differently than girls and they think about it ALL THE TIME.
2. Between the ages of 12 to 35, guys have a running porno reel going through their head when they see a girl they find attractive.
3. It takes a long time for guys to learn that if they take their time and ensure that their partner enjoys sex, they will get to have more sex.
4. As guys get older, nothing turns them on more than girls who enjoy having sex (and after awhile, we know who is faking it). Girls should explore what pleases them (yes, masterbate!) before having sex with guys.
5. Guys think that girls use sex as a weapon and it is a relationship killer.
6. Guys often simply use girls as a substitute for their hand and will say just about anything to get in a girls pants. Girls must understand this very unromantic truth and decide whether to participate or not.
7. Guys do not think about the consequences of sex, the disproportionate weight that sex has on girls. Girls must to protect themselves if they chose to have sex.
8. Committed relationship/Married sex is better. For many different reasons. Not moralizing. Just the truth.
9. It takes a long time for many guys to admit they are attached to someone. We hate rejection.
10. As kitty2114 says, guys are complicated. Sometimes schizo. Be patient and forgiving. it should work both ways.
I am a dad of a pre-teen. Thanks for letting me practice my "Night the First Date" speech. I doubt she'll let me give it! -
Men aren't as complicated as some think, no one is , people need to pay attention and learn about each personality as you go if you care about each other this might be fun. Few things I know (about me) 1.Every now and then tell you appreciate him.
2.Sex is important but even a guy doesn't want it all the time.
3.He needs respect, not patronizing (LOOK up Respect)
4.Encourage him
5.Be wiling to try new things (you must trust him to have a good relationship)
6. Tell him what you want or feel don't hint and beat around the bush until your mad sometimes you just got tell him
7. Sometimes we need just a little quite, comfortable silence is healthy
8. Sunrise him do something daring, whether at home or out.
9.If you get into a fight, sit down and talk, cool off and then talk, screaming and arguing never works, men tune that crap out.
10. He may be the baddest m/f on the block but I promise that the woman he loves can having him bawling like a baby, so think about what you say.
!. Never let him forget that he is who you fell in love with, don't try to change him. -
1.) If a guy says, "May-be we can still be friends?" It means - I don't want to date you but I'll still have sex with you.
2.) When a guy says, "You look so good today." It means god I wanna have sex with you.
3.) When you catch a guy looking at another girl and he says, "You are way prettier than her." It means crap I got caught, but I'd love to have them both at the same time.
4.) If a guy doesn't seem interested in you don't think more flirting will work.
5.) If a guy says he doesn't watch porn. He's Lying.
6.) When you flirt with a guy, he's wondering how long it's gonna take to get you in bed.
7.) A guy will always sleep with an ex girlfriend if he's got the chance.
8.) Guys do cry, but mostly after their favorite sporting team lost the big game.
9.) Guys make bad liars.
10.) Guys will do anything or say anything to have sex with you. -
1) that men masturbate for no then reason then to masturbate
2) that what men masturbate to may not necassarily be what they are in fact interested in doing
3) that men are physiologically predisposed to having less empathy, and thus fewer "feelings"
4) that the same parts of the female brain that light up during conversation are the same parts of the male brain that light up during the viewing of porn
5) men have trouble understanding "layered" conversation, in which you ask him something to see how he will react even if you don't want him to do what you asked
6) don't talk about fight club
7) DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB
8) that he may mean well, but will do or say incredibly stupid things
9) that he has some sort of demanding interest that you may or may not hate
10) seriously. don't talk about fight club -
We have feelings
We get jealous easily
We are as body conscious as you
Dont expect too much from us, we don't see everything in the same way as you
We don't all just want sex
We require precious time with our mates, it doesn't mean you bore us. guys just work differently socially.
We think girls are sexy in the morning
We don't like to be changed to suit your needs
If you assume "all guys are d***s" its most probably you
We most often don't like being nagged by you, your friends, or your mother a simple please is nice.
We love a nice sexy picture if we spend time away, but struggle to build up mental sexiness to send one back.
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