He's engaged but he flirts with me all the time?

[Anonymous]

He's a really good friend of mine and he's probably one of the nicest guys I've ever met. I really am so confused because he has a fiance but he flirts with me all the time. He tells me he misses me a lot, he tells me how pretty I look, he asks me if I have any new boys in my life and wants to know what they're like, he's always asking me if I wanna come over and see him and hang out and when I got a new haircut he said this: "your new hair cut is honestly a good change makes you look a lot better and more mature I guess...I just think that since the hair cut your whole look seemed to have changed..."

I don't know if he's just being friendly or if he actually does really like me.

[friendlyadvice]

How long have you two been friends? Since he's engaged he may feel a lot more comfortable about being able to say what's on his mind to you. Why? Because you know he's engaged and he wouldn't/shouldn't be trying to make moves on you and since he's engaged you won't classify him as a creeper...Hope that made sense...

He may have had feelings for you in the past and never really got over those feelings. However, he's engaged and you should respect that. If he makes a move on you remind him about his engagement and let him know that you'll be there for him as a friend and friend only.

Best,

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[The_Box]

Since he's a good friend, he's probably just being friendly.

[csb9663]

Well if it is making you uncomfortable you should confront him about it. Maybe he is just a really friendly guy, or maybe there is some kind of attraction there towards you. Either way, you should confront him.