If this is something that he's insecure about then you can't make him show you. Stop pushing him, that's only going to make him even more reluctant to let you see his body. If this is a major insecurity of his then you'll just have to wait until HE is ready and comfortable enough. I know you mean well and your intentions are good but trying to force someone to do something they aren't comfortable with is not good. If you care about him then let him show you when he's ready.
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Oh, the moment after lovemaking is one of the more magical moments available to us as human beings. Don’t deprive yourself of it.
It’s important that he realises you are pining for a deeper intimacy, so the next time you find him reaching for his robe in the dark, comfort him with something much more powerful the truth about the depth of your feelings for him.
Good luck.
There are some possibilities why he won't let you see him naked:
He's cheating and using that as an excuse not to do anything sexual
Possible traumatic experience, it does not have to be sexual
He was born a woman and he has female genatalia
Self harm scars
i think u should just leave him alone... like y r u forcing him? he will be comfortable with u in time dont u worry, but for now u might have to give him some time.
u dont have to see him naked so that he can prove he trusts u and is comfortable with you.
There must be some underlying reason, must be something he doesn't want you to see on him, I guess you have sex with the lights off every time , does he sleep in his clothes? You must sleep next to him by now, you see him while sleeping. I only heard of this with some women but even after that long they are over it. how about going to the beach?
Try and take his clothes off while you are naked yourself. It's more effective.
Ask him why he doesn't want to show you and then tell him that it doesn't bother you.
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Thats really weird, why are you so ashamed to show your own girlfriend your body?
I'd be happy to share it with her from the moment we got official.
I can imagine him not being comfortable if he doesn't like his own skin, probably affraid you will leave him at the sight. But after 2 years its really odd he still feels that way even after all the encouragement.
I don't really have advice for you on this, its as if he's not ready to be with you on that intimate level.Have you really had sex? It sounds like a Jerry Springer show where a lesbian always kept her clothes on and used a dildo to convince the girl. She came on the show to do the reveal and propose.
Seems very strange and difficult if he won't even talk about it. You could make an ultimatum about it, at least to talk about it. Has he seen you naked? Sounds like some insecurity issues.
is he like the type of guy that wants to wait till marriage with any sexual action?
tell him it´s important to you to know that and that he has to tell you if he trusts you, which you expect from a person whos going to propose.Maybe he was actually a she at one point or was supper over weight and is embarrassed about his body?
maybe there's something about his body that he doesn't feel confident in to show... i dunno tho, very weird 0_0
He should get therapy, I've heard of people having this problem
He must be insecure about something or he has some morals placed high.
He's probably insecure. Don't force him it'll gradually be alright
He's a never-nude?
Hitler had the same problem
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