OK I have been flirting with this guy for a why and he says I'm a tease...is it a bad thing? what does that even mean?
Is it a bad thing if a guy calls you a tease?
It's not necessarily a bad thing. Being a tease is when you lead some one to thinking they are going to hook up with you (either because you are flirting, texting, making out) but you actually don't. In a case where a girl makes out and starts feeling him up or letting him feel her, and then she goes "Oh gotta go" or "No more" that is being a mean tease. But in your case where you are flirting or even if you make out and don't go further being a tease isn't bad. You're getting this guy to want you and he may even get excited, but by not letting him satisfy those desires his want for you get stronger. But don't do it too long and don't be a mean tease. At first teasing will drive him crazy for you, but if it goes on for too long he'll get mad and eventually move on. So enjoy the power you have over him, but don't go crazy with it. Have fun! ;)
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I always thought it was a bad thing. Certainly in any other generation it would be.
It basically means you're a player in the sense you allude and "promise" things (mainly sexual) you've no intention of ever doing for whatever benefit you get out of it.
I hardly think anyone would gain respect or power for doing it (only with weak minded individuals), more like just making him want you as a hook up.
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nah, he just thinks that you're not serious but you like his imagination to get a good workout if you know what I mean😗😜
Him calling you a tease is exactly what you want in this situation. It means that the flirting you've been doing for the past couple of days/weeks/months is working in your favor. All it means is that he's acknowledging the fact that you're flirting with him and it's reeling him in. The reason why he's letting you know might be because you're only giving him a little bit of what he wants, and he wants more. If this is someone you're trying to seduce/attract for a relationship or just a hook-up, you're on the right path and keep doing what you're doing. Doing it for too long though might cause him to become frustrated and just let you go, so either step it up after a little while or drop it if you don't wish to see him/have him anymore. Good luck!
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It depends on if he was joking, and if he was talking about sex, or other issues. If he meant you were a total sexual tease, it's not a good thing. if he was joking around, it might not mean much of anything at all, except that you are fun to tease back and play with.
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Not that bad but.. mmmf! I'm not very impressed with a guy saying that. It sounds like he's fishing for info or playing hard to get.
"Are you genuinely into me or just joking around?" deflecting the risk of asking you out and putting it back in your court.
His cue when being flirted with is to flirt back if he's interested, escalate it a bit and see your response, or cut it off with a moment of sincerity "Honestly though, I do like you, so if you would want to...". -
a tease me that ur someone who jus plays with boys kinda like just leading them on but not iving them what they wnt me personally I like it kinda makes me feel like wn I finally get the girl that she be more likely not to cheat because it as so hard to get her not stating that and of this is true just how I feel
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No, its not a bad thing. It means you lead him into 'temptation' and than pretend nothing happened. Its means he likes you, a lot.
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Mission accomplished so far. Pay close attention to it though, it gets old in a hurry once we catch onto what you are doing.
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yeah I think its a bad thing, it just makes me think you just want the attention and if I was ever in a relationship with someone like that you will keep doing it.
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it means uve hooked him and whatever ur doing to him he like and whats more
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It can be either, depending on the context and the way he said it.
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Could be. Depends on how long you do it. Do it too long, and he'll get the impression you're JUST a tease. He'll get frustrated and write you off.
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It's not necessarily a bad thing if he is still hanging around but if he's gone or pulling away then it's a bad thing
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Probably. He feels like you won’t get down to business and that you’re just toying with him.
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Some guys like being teased... it's like a form of foreplay
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I think it a good thing. Like when people say ur a snak its the same thing of u know what i mean
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i hate teasers i have literally punched a few girls for that
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As long as it is Not A... Cock Tease. xx
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Flirtatious tease... not a bad thing! I think guys like it. It keeps things fun and flirty.
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Yes, it's bad. Tease means - bitch.
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Not good
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