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I kissed two boys in one night! Slutty?

Pleaase help I feel terrible.! Last night I was at a party and there was this guy with whom I have history but nothing serious, but there was this other guy who turned out to be one of his bffs and he kissed me and I kissed him back and everyone saw us. The first guy saw us too and got REALLY upset with me and I don't get why if we have nothing, we just made up a couple tiemes before but nothing else. But i can't help to feel bad, guilty and slutty :(((
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  • Don't worry hun. Pulled off the same thing. You'll feel like you're a slut for two days or so but it goes away. I know exactly what will make you feel better EXACTLY. And reply to this message if it worked. Go on youtube and search, world's strictest parents. You don't know slutty until you watch this series. literally pick any episode you want and i guarantee you will be cheered up. Reply to this comment if it cheered you up

  • 1-that s really normal when you re at a party.
    2-you re there to have fun no? Now did you enjoy it? If so who cares
    3-talk to guy and see what s up with him.
    Make it clear to him that there is no feelings. Just precautions you know..
    4-why do you care if people saw you kissing.
    It s not the devil s work you know.
    Hope this helped ^^

  • If you didn't fuck them then your not a slut.

    Though if that first guy got upset that probably means he has deeper feelings for you.

    • If it never happened to you, you wouldn't know. Seeing someone you like with whom you already made out with kissing someone else in your presence is hurtful.

  • That is NOT being slutty, slutty is giving it up to everyone or so on.. it's just kissing.. not that serious, don't put yourself down.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Lol that happens in the town I live like all the time, like a mini love parade the fuck.
    Everything has it's benefits (also not being part of that love parade can be a good thing, even tho some girls there r hot I don't like drama)

  • You're the queen of sluts.
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  • You kissed two guys. So what. If you aren't comfortable with it then consider it lesson learned and don't do it again, other than that it really doesn't matter.

  • Dude, it's a kiss. It's not like you had a threesome. You're just a flirt.

  • Compared to most girls, no its not slutty. Most girls would be like "i gave 2 BJs in one night! Am i slutty?"

  • Oh... really? You win I only kissed one random boy one night hahah!

  • That's not slutty at all. I kiss many girls a night when I go to parties. Who's the real slut here?

  • It's probably because the guy really likes you

  • You are not a slut because you didn't do anything sexual with them. Kissing is meaningless to me.

  • If you felt bad for what you did, all I can say is good for you. It shows a sign of maturity.

    I recently had a similar experience. I met this beautiful woman at a bar (I know, the worst place) and we hit it off quite well. Chatted for approximately 4 hours. We got to know so much of each other than by then it was so easy to make my move and plant a kiss on her..

    In which it was kissing from then on. Getting heavy at times with the touching, grabbing, holding, etc...

    Until something happened. She wanted to try her hand at pool and went over to the nearby pool table to play the next guy.. I'm sitting there enjoying my beer and enjoying everything about that night until I saw the worst nightmare.. the guy she was playing said something to her.. in which she just stood there almost like in shock. Before she could respond he went up to her and kissed her in which she returned the kissed and allowed his tongue to enter her mouth.

    My heart dropped to my stomach and felt sick all the way home as I got up and left.

    I would like to say the alcohol made her do it but we never spoke since so I dunno if she's feeling remorse or she just doesn't realize or care what she did.

    I tried talking to some friends only to get the same crap..."she was never your girl she can kiss who she wants". Really? But in your face?

    We have a big problem in today's dating scene and it's called Leverage. There's too much leverage in dating that it's pathetic.

    A woman shouldn't have to be a guy's official girlfriend in order to show some respect. For herself and the guy she's with.

    No she wasn't my girl. But dammit we talked for hours, got to know a lot of each other, obviously she enjoyed my company as I did hers, for that moment she was with me. That should stand for something. But society says "No it shouldn't".

    That first guy who saw you kiss the other was me. He felt exactly what I did. Hurt, disgusted, devalued and confused. He likes you. If you didn't feel the same, but already made out a few times, you should have had that talk with him that you don't want any ties. This way he wouldn't have been so hurt when he saw you kissing the other guy.

    But the important thing is you acknowledged this was inappropriate and thats what matters.

    You're mature enough to know this isn't right. I'm sure this will never happen again because you have a good heart.

    Society will tell you that you can kiss whoever you want if you have no official tie to someone which doesn't help anyone or anything. It just causes pain.

    Legally however, society is right. You CAN kiss whoever you want if you're not committed. But morally and ethically, society is dead wrong.

    As long as you honestly felt bad, all i can say is "Good for you for being one of the good ones".

  • I had sex with 2 lol

  • ur a slut first kissing one guy

    • thats pretty stupid :/ its like saying "oh fuck, you're married? you're such a slut."

  • I would classify you as a flirt based on that. Try and keep to kissing one guy in public in the future.

  • In the eyes of many, no. In the eyes of a few, yes.

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