Why do Men find my mom more attractive than me when I am around her? Should I be Asexual?

[Anonymous]

I wish I had at least one guy checking me out when I am around my mom to make me feel good and attractive.

[ChocEyes]

First, you don't choose to be asexual. It's a sexual orientation. You can choose to be celibate, not asexual.

Second, can you stop making everything about you for an instant? :( The universe doesn't revolve around your belly button. Don't be so selfish ok? You sound very bitter and competitive towards your mother.

Kinda like the other girl complaining that all the guys tell her her friend is hot instead of her. C'mon, this is so little. Selfishness is not a virtue.

Take care.

[Asker]

Thank you for you constructive criticism. I recognize that I had been bitter and disrespectful towards my mother. I do feel guilty. I know that any girl that is not selfish towards her mom has blessed life and lives longer.

[ChocEyes]

We all have issues with our parents and sometimes feel angry with them. That's ok. Just don't let this make you a bitter and resentful person ok?

Cheers.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot! :)

[stubbsy]

The thing is. By checking out your mum they are really checking out your qualities and what's the future got in line for you later on because every guy knows that if they want to see a girls full talent then check out the mum. x

[Anonymous]

Your mom must be really hot. I've seen that happen before, where the mom was muscular and athletic and showing off her body with hot clothes, while the daughter was fat and frumpy. My advice is to get yourself into shape. Guys will not be able to ignore a fit girl. We can't do it.

[Asker]

I am very thin, but I have to accept that I am unattractive. Though, my friends and family tells me that I am very pretty.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like you have really low self-esteem. Don't let that be the end of your story. I used to have low self-esteem and improved it by building muscle and accomplishing my goals.

[Asker]

Well! Ok!

[tyber1]

Not a lot of women stay hot when they age so if you're older and still hot it's just sexier. It's always attractive when someone is healthy and takes care of themselves.

[Asker]

In fact, I am not attractive because a group of white guys said that I am ugly. Guys are very honest with what they say. But it is weird that I only am good at attracting female's attention. When I was walking past a group of guys, I swung my hips to attract male attention, but they were looking down on my hips rather than my face. I wish that I could attract by my face not by my body.

[tyber1]

Eh work with what you've got.

[Asker]

I know the truth hurts. By this statement, does this mean that I am not attractive.

[tyber1]

I don't know, I can't judge unless I see you.

[tyber1]

Also, you can be celebrate but you cannot choose to be asexual. Asexual isn't a practice it's a sexual orientation.

[Asker]

Then, I chose to celebrate on becoming an eternal bachelorette like an angel.

[Anonymous]

There's a difference between guys finding your mom attractive, and saying she's more attractive than you.

I'm guessing the guys who mentioned it were friends of yours?

[Asker]

No! They are just strangers.

[Opinion Owner]

Well what's the age range of those guys?

I can't tell how attractive you are since you don't have a picture but chances are you're just as attractive if not more since you share the same genes and you're younger.

[Asker]

You sound like my family and friends who tell me that I am gorgeous.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol is that a good or bad thing?
I was just stating a scientific probability :P

Chances are, a guy isn't going to come up and tell you he finds you attractive in front of your mom lol

[Asker]

It is neither good or bad, but neutralish.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you shy by any chance?

[Asker]

Yes! I am very introverted when it comes to strangers including men. When I talk to my dad, he is like the only person that actually make me feel that I should be talking to him which amazes me because my friends and family know that I am reserved and lack eye contact with strangers. I am not autistic because I do make eye contact with my loved ones. I

[Opinion Owner]

Well guys can pick up on that, it makes you seem unapproachable even if they do like you lol especially the eye contact part

[TheWorldEndsWithYou]

Some people are very slick, maybe they are checking you out? You just can't see that they are.

[pinolly]

So is your mom seeing anyone at this time?

[Asker]

No! She is too busy eating.

[croxy]

She might just as well be?

[Asker]

So you are telling me that my mom is more attractive than me? This is a yes or no question. I hope I never date or marry a dude.

[tenchu11]

A dude? Or a male?

[Asker]

@tenchu11 Neither of them. I give up on guys already, when at least are not as superficial as you men are. Asexuality is what I chose to practice. I promise I would asexual as possible.

[Anonymous]

it happens. some times the momma is hotter... .

[SuitAndTie]

Maybe she is more attractive than you?

[Asker]

You already know that she is more attractive than me. What can I do to look as beautiful as my mom.

[SuitAndTie]

How am I supposed to know she is more attractive than you? Because you say so?

Do what your mum does. Clothes, make up etc. However, you could do all those things and your mum may still be more beautiful.

[Asker]

Doesn't matter anyway. I know this is a waste of time for me. I had become reclused and I am learning to like it. Being a recluse makes me feel beautiful and free from male oppression.

[Asker]

If you are a quiet man or an introvert like me, you would definitely like being recluse for at least 24 hours. I am going to have bring more resources and convert my own room into a zoo or library for me. I wish I could an indoor tracks inside my house.

[Anonymous]

That's no reason to give up on guys
#SillyGirl1

[Asker]

Thank! But I am though for trying to attract guys. I promise to you I never been sexually abused or even harassed but I do not know what I crave for male attention.