Basically, I've had 4 "dates" with this kid who each time, comes off very sarcastic. At first, I found him hilarious. But now, after the fourth date.. and him still not showing too much of a real serious side, I'm not sure if he's being flirty or just a jerk. He will rub my back, or grab my hand after we High-5 (so I get the feeling he likes me).. but then say things like "you're so weird" or say "don't touch me". Sometimes I think he's flirting, and other times I wonder if he see's me as more than a friend. At the end of each date, he walks me to my car and his attitude will drastically change. He will be sweet and put his arms around me and his hand on my face when he kisses me. Is he just unaware of how to act around a girl? Or what? Another thing to add, is he doesn't like texting and I work two jobs so calling him is almost impossible. So we almost virtually don't talk outside face to face encounters. I usually end up texting him anyways to see how he is. And he will reply, sometimes a bit later. We bowl on the same league on Wednesdays so he knows we will see each other one way or another. I just don't get his mixed signals. Okay I'm done =)
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I guess I should that in high school he was voted kindest. And every single one of our mutual friends say he's the nicest guy ever. I just haven't known him very long yet. So.. wtf? haha.
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