Is it really unattractive for a guy to be that light, with small arms, even if he has an attractive face?
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Oh yeah, and height is around 5'8
Is 130 pounds too light for a guy?
I think my boyfriend is about your size. lol And love it. We can cuddle at ease. I'm about 5'3 and weight like 120, so I'm not exactly too skinny as he is, but we look fine. I've dated big guys, and it's awkward to cuddle/hold them. Just try to eat right and stay healthy, don't worry about being skinny too much. Girls who are into dating bigger guys may not date you, but there are attractive and awesome girls who would love you for who you are, trust me. And being a good lover in bed helps too. ;) You don't need to weigh a lot to be that.
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You are very slim but that will be a temporary condition. Eventually you will put on weight especially as you get closer to your mid to late 20's. Anyways I wouldn't worry about it. I worked with this guy who was a super picky eater, practically emaciated (he would make jokes about looking like a skeleton) and he got girls. He had so much confidence and he just didn't care. He knew the truth. Girls like guys with confidence, even fake confidence (jerks), and everything else will be negotiable.
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for me it is, I like guys with big arms who can hold me, I don't want a guy with arms/a body like mine. I like the fact that most guys are at least twice my size and that in the event that something were to go wrong they could protect me (I know it's not the stone age anymore and horrible things that require a big strong guy to keep you safe won't happen but still, I like it) and just in general I feel safer with them.
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Just eat healthy and try to do some moderate exercise. If that's your normal weight, there's not much you can do about it. Unless your willing to lift weights. But I doubt it's a turn off for girls. While most girls like muscles, they are not all that interested in beef cakes. I'd say your a good weight. Just stay healthy.
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you are who you are mate. you'll be fine... girls who are into wrestlers won't like ya, but many others will.
good luck
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5.8 130 is small enough I'm 6 foot 180 and I think I'm skinny sum times.girls don't care as much AS you would think about how big a guy is. they do like height tho.
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Look at Bruce Lee, he was pretty small but amazingly powerful. Dynamite comes in small packages son.
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you're fine
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