OK. Making conversation with this girl was a CHORE, seriously. I really want to get to know her, so naturally I ask her questions. When I would ask a question, she would answer it simply, and that would be all, she wouldn't elaborate at all, or ask me any questions back. Plus I didn't ask to many questions after this because I didn't want her to feel like she was being interrogated or something.
this confuses me because normally If I'm with a girl who is interested in me she will ask me questions to try to get to know me. So is this girl not interested in me?
I have a girl friend that sits next to me in the class I met this girl in and she adamantly INSISTS that this girl likes me, saying she has seen her checking me out many times and looking at me and whispering excitedly to her friend "here he comes" when I walk in, ECT.
She has expressed interest in going out again but how am I going to get to know her if she will hardly talk to me? Is she uncomfortable? What can I do to get her to open up? Was it harder for her to open up because it was a double date and she was with her friend? (although she did impress me by not talking to her friend the whole time and totally ignoring me)
any and all help is much appreciated, thank you very much
first time user here :)
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