She was using flirty emojis while speaking to me. For some reason I started thinking that she may like me.
We never texted since then.
Turns out I was right because she kept on speaking to, staring at & flirting with me since then.
In class, she would find excuses to hold my hands - everyday I'd get highfives lasting for seconds.
I was staring deeply at my hands (don't ask why). All of a sudden she pressed her hand on mine for a few secs - maybe to compare the sizes?
Once, she said that her hands were warm and out of nowhere she held both my hands for a few secs while staring at my eyes.
Once, she came into a near-empty class asking "Who has cold hands?" (we were early) and I said "I do".
She walked to me. Held my left hand for a minute, said "You have nice hands." and I said "Thanks."
In the same lesson, I was speaking to my mate, and I instinctively decided to stare at the girl.
She was looking at me with the side of her eyes - her face was red AF.
The same day, she changed her Whatsapp PP to a "Maybe okay will be our always." image with a 'relationship goals' couple.
This was the first time she'd changed her PP to this.
Skip to May, I decided to go Alpha. Messaged her. She replied. Asked a question, this time I got ignored despite it being seen. I was legit broken. Thought she didn't like me.
So at skl, I would ignore her and her highfives, and be rude to her when she tried to speak to me.
Skip to post-holidays, I decided to start fresh. We flirted - the chemistry built up again.
But I kept teasing her to the point where she made a status saying "Maybe I should move on."
So I popped up to her on SC, asked for her Oovoo. She instantly replied but I replied 2hrs later. Her messages were "OMG HELLO THERE." Two minutes later. "My name is (...)"
It was a BAD move to take that long to open the messages.
From then on she started hating me.
From then on she started ignoring me.
I said hi to her in real life, she ignored me, I said hi again, she said "I'm not speaking to you" with a straight face.
The next day I legit kept on saying sorry to her, but she didn't reply and when my friend asked if the girl and I were still friends, the girl said no.
It's been a week, she really hates me.
She never looked my way, looked at me or came near me.
I decided to ignore her back for the whole next day.
Then yesterday on the trip she was constantly staring at me, but I never paid her any attention or looked at her at all.
I realised I messed up, there's no going back. She hates me a lot now. How do I move on? It's clear I've messed up beyond repair.
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