There is no mixed signals. She more and likely just wanted somebody to talk to. Nobody don't just tell something personal if they don't trust you with that information. She may like you, but is still figuring herself out wither she likes you in that way or not. So she's slowing down so it won't cause this friendship to end on the account of her no knowing. Also, she may not be ready to date you or anybody yet, and it sounds like to me she is the type of person to be easily get attached emotionally.
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Hmm it sounds to me as though she just likes you as a friend. She's probably fond of you and enjoys talking to you, and would like to develop a friendship with you, but not date you.
If I talk to a man a lot, it means I just like his personality and like talking to him. If I fancy someone I hold back a lot more.
Well everyone can have their off days, they can't always be all singing all dancing. Sometimes I have days when I'm really jovial, in a chatty mood and I'm laughing and joking with people. Other times, when I'm jaded and happy in my own company, I dont really feel like talking to anyone.
That's what girls do. They send mixed signals. Seeming really interested one moment and disinterested the next is supposedly a way to flirt with guys. I dunno why because all it does is really confuses guys.
Because she isn't interested in you.
But girls want attention. So she wants you hooked and giving attention. But doesn't want you in anyway.
Just using you to boost her ego.
That's just how girls are. Some of them do it purposely to see if you'll keep giving her an attention and others do it because, well, they feel like it.
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Believe me, it's not a gender thing (my now boyfriend used to do this)
I think she's feeling it out, and trying to figure how you communicate and react to different responses.
Or she might simply be busy or in a bad mood on the days she doesn't act interested. Mostly everyone have days where they're not as communicative as normal.If I'm shy and don't want him to know that I like him because he might not like me I'll act wishy washy
Either having an off day, cause I admit I do that sometimes when I'm not in a good mood, or trying to see if you're really interested.
Or just sending mixed signals, how about you ask HER?Let me give u a hint
Girls only go after things (das more of a challenge)
If a girl like u and u show interest right away she will lose hers... u see we girls likes to chase BUT do not like to be chased... we want things da we feel like we can't have...
LolShe's probably unsure, or doesn't want to seem too clingy, some girls including myself get kind of turned off if a guy is way too into me, so there might me a lot of reasons.
1) Playing hard to get
2) She got bored
3) She only talk to you because she is bored
As a girl, I am guilty of doing those things before. Sorry to say this but she was not even slightly interested in you...ask her out on a date, that'll tell ya if she's interested or not.
if you don't think you wanna go out w/ her because she might be interested, than you're wasting your time altogether.It's what they do. It's part of their DNA. And in a way, I find it kinda sexy. :P
How often are her short answers kinda bluntness? Sometimes she could be having a bad day. Ask her on a date in person.
When this happens I just assume she's not interested and move on
We have slot of people to pay attention to.. Not one.
She could have changed her mind
Bitchness, immaturity and to k u.
Because she's really not that interested.
She's nervous awww
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