Hey girls and why not guys too! I have a question for you; do you feel like a creep magnet? Me and my sis are very different, but we both have in common the fact that we attract weirdos. With weirdos I mean guys who for example stalk us or talks about the weirdest things. It is creepy. I get a lot of approaches but more often in such a way it really gives me the negative goosebumps. When I am out partying with my friends all the creepers talk to me. My friends have also pointed it out to me. Guys that stare a lot without trying to hide it and guys that say something like "I saw you on tinder!" or "I fell in love with you right when I saw you"... Mostly all the creeps get attracted to me even more when I do not show any interest or do not answer them at all. Is it a turn-off for normal guys if the girl is a creep magnet? Have you any similar experiences? What helps towards this? Why isn't decent guys approachin me more often? Is there just a lot of creepers out there? Do guys experience some girls as creeps too?
Yep. It started during my first year of college this old man would be really friendly with me. I had just thought he was lonely at first but then he started getting TOO friendly. He started saying things like, "Your lips are such a pretty shade of pink." and whenever I sat down with him he would touch his knees against mine if I would shift away he would shift closer. There has also been a few occasion at work where older men would move behind my cart and get too close to me when I'm giving out samples. Then there was that time with a co-worker long story short I'm a creepy old guy magnet...
Eww... old creepers are so creepy. I have also been approaches by some and when I was still a small girl one man came and said: I know you dad. And started to follow me... I don't think he knew my dad
Yeah I've had a right bunch of liquorice allsorts approach me. From drunk or sober dudes out to get laid. Guys that follow me around but never talk to me, I even find out that some of them have girlfriends. How fucked up is that? :S
I wouldn't say being a "creep" is a conscious effort on the parts of a lot of these dudes, they're probably just either general social retards or actually have mental issues.
Anyway I could probably say yes, though what is the definition of a creepy girl, exactly? I can certainly think of one girl who, without a doubt, was a weird lass, but then I'd never call her a "creep" because I knew why she was the way she was. It's kinda harsh.
I agree with whyisitso, whose post mentions stalking. When you are clearly not interested in someone and are uneasy around them, and they keep persisting and seem encouraged by your reaction, and start following you around and won't leave you alone, this is by definition stalking. There is no excuse for this whatsoever, whether the stalker is male or female, and anyone who engages in this sort of behavior deserves to be called a CREEP.
I dont get creeped out, I mean guys dont get creeped out in general because we're not exactly scared of you girls 😜 like you are of us. The weirdest girls can approach us and we'll just laugh at them if they do strange things like you mentioned.
I dont get how saying "i fell in love the moment i saw you" is creepy? Wouldn't you just laugh at him?
It is creepy if you just met the guy and he says that as his first words. I do laugh at it but it has happened already a few times and they don't like it if you laugh at them 😅
Haha, it's just a pickup line, he doesn't mean he loves you right away :P. But yeah i get your point. That's what i mean by fear, you're worried when you reject a man that he might get angry or not take it well. Same with staring it makes you uncomfortable. Some inexperienced guy's don't realise a girl has to *invite* you to approach with body language and eye contact - the inexperienced ones just randomly come up behind u and say "me love you, pls date"...
Flip it around if a girl came up to me and said that and i laughed at her, there's nothing she can do to me lol. Or if a girl is staring i'll stare her back or i'll go over to her and ask her if she wants a drink without caring what might happen :P
One of my sisters is a creep magnet for guys with Yellow Fever, she has her wedding ring on and still gets approached. I can see her visibly getting all awkward and scared so i totally understand why you gals do :)
Yeah, I have bad experiences of creepy guys so I fear them. I kind of not fear to reject them but I fear the way they will react to my rejection. Also, more often creepy guys just get more into me if I clearly reject them.
Dunno about creeps but more simply just the leftovers no one else wants. The psychos, the trailer trash, the fat or otherwise unattractive ones, the ones already 6 months pregnant with someone else's kid (he packed and bailed), etc. Dunno why they think that somehow I 'd want them when no one else does. Not like I have "Desperate loser with no standards here" written on my forehead.
Sounds quite harsh. I understand your point and you are not the desperate, it is them. I don't know why they always find the same persons, maybe there is something with us that says: I am not gonna be mean to you...
Haha, I was waiting for this one. I forgot to mention it in the info and I also didn't really write about the best examples... But to be honest, if you are very attractive you usually aren't being creepy. The looks, however, has nothing to do with your behaviour and how creepy vibes you send. Instead of looks I would say character, like if you have angry expressions or are very touchy or your gestures are very rude. I have met unattractive guys that become attractive in their behaviour and I have met attractive guys that can be very unattractive in their behaviour. It is more about the whole picture.
Like you said, if someone is attractive it's generally not creepy, if they are meh or gross, the same thing is seen as "please leave me alone". I can see a hot guy being touchy with you, without it being creepy, while an ugly guy is just creepy. Because you just plain don't want to touch them haha. Of course they can be creepy in personality as well. I dunno girls always complain about being approached by ugly/creepy guys. If your attractive, you'll attract everything, not just who you want to. Or these ugly guys think they're closer to your league I guess.
Yeah, but with really attractive I meant: guys who are attractive in personality and looks. But a guy who looks attractive may be creepy like every other guy. A guy who is unattractive in my opinion doesn't have to be creepy even if they approach me.. creepy has nothing to do with your looks. It is your words and your behaviour. One example of megacreepy: I saw you crying and thought you looked dangerous so I didn't help you, but would you wanna come to my party now when you are okey again? This is just something weird, something people normally wouldn't do or say. And this guy was stalking and creeping me a long time. He was not attractive but the problem with him being creepy was not because of him being unattractive... Then one guy I thought was good looking was also a megacreep. At first I was interested but then he messaged me he had followed me in the library and knew what I had been doing but hadn't come over to say hi...
I saw you crying and thought you looked dangerous so I didn't help you, but would you wanna come to my party now when you are okey again? Thats borderline incomprehensible.. the fuck lol. Well for most girls creepy is almost a synonym for ugly. I mean appearance will always have a good impact on a person being creepy, stalking you and saying weird shit only a strung out druggy would say is definitely creepy though. Maybe you look more approachable than your friends, try to develop a resting bitch face. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3v98CPXNiSk
Still had a few pissy homeowners walk up to me and ask me stupid questions like I was the jobsite foreman all the time haha, so it's definitely not 100% :/
Can you say what should I do when a guy I never met likes all my pics but when I asked him out he actually agreed but then got cold feet and then I asked again and he left me on read... is he a creep? He liked my pic again today and I feel annoyed...
He doesn't sound worth your time. Haha liking all of someones pictures on instagram and shit seems so stupid. Anyway if someone flakes out on me I get fed up pretty quick, what was his excuse? "I'm a cowardly bitch"? He's insanely shy I'm guessing?
Haha, he just told he can't make it but we could do it another time. I think he might be shy because I think he wouldn't behave like that othervise... the stupid part is that I like shy guys 😝
Yeah I don't know last minute shit just pisses me off too much haha. I was pretty shy years ago but never to the point of flaking last minute on plans, just seems INCREDIBLY shy haha.
Haha yeah, I don't know if he really can be that shy... But based on his instagram he doesn't have many girl-contacts and he doesn't really like any other girls pics. He talked quite shyly but I just thought he was not that interested back then and when he flaked out I was sure pf it, but now when he likes all my pics (except the ones where I am not in) I am just confused
sometimes when i text with a girl and it turns out to be nothing after some time i see them back in places and they kind of stare at me all the time and it creeps me out.
if i have reached out to them in the past and they have not responded then im not gonna kep reaching out to them. i mean, i ask them to hang out and they dont want to why would i go over to them and talk to them? that makes no sense.
I've met pretty much no one whom I could legitametly call creepy. I think your problem is that you're just dismissing men whom approach you as "creepy".
Yeah, maybe sometimes... Here is a few example of the creepier ones: - I am gonna kidnap you and take you to a place no one else knows. - I saw you crying but I thought you were looking dangerous so I didn't stop and help. Come to my party today? - I was watching you on the library today, how are you? -Hey I can't send you messages on fb (because i blocked that random stalker) so I am gonna message you here instead
I've experienced girls as creeps, who spread rumors about me after I rejected them, only because I didn't want them in my pants after having met them a few times with hardly any talking. Disgusting.
@fuqthegovt lol I am black and your right! I didn't think that was still going on to be honest why does anyone want a unhealthy overweight person, I mean it's okay to be a little overweight but not like wayyyyy of the scale
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