I have a crush on this guy, should I swipe right on tinder? I am scared it would be awkward if we match. Please share your opinions?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this guy that goes to same university that I do and we have classes together. He sits in front of me during every lecture, a few times he sat besides me. He is really handsome and smart. I kind of think he is trying to flirt with me but I am very shy. So a few days ago I signed up on tinder and saw his profile. The next day during lectures he was talking with his friend and mentioned tinder and how he has 60 matches. While he was talking about it he turned around a few times and looked at me. I thought to myself that maybe he saw my profile and somehow wanted to let me know. So, I don't know what should I do. Should I swipe right? I am a little bit scared that we would match and that it would be awkward the next time we see each other. What do you guys think? What should I do if we do match? Thank you for your help!

[vonasaurus]

go for it, lol. what have you got to lose?

when i was online dating, i found a friend of mine- not someone i had any feelings for, but i sent him a message anyway; it was like, "fancy meeting you here, good luck lol"... and he replied "same to you". we live in a small town, so i was bound to run into someone i knew.

maybe you could start your message with "fancy meeting you here- coffee after class on (insert day here)?" you never know, he might appreciate the humour.

good luck!

[Serbear]

He seems quite confident, so if you swiped right on him, I feel like he would persist with you first (make the first move). You'll never know what he truly thinks if you don't. People are naturally drawn to people who have confidence, if you swipe right and he knows, be as confident as you can. Chin up, back straight, boobs up and parade that shīt but in the end you are the only one who can make that decision. Good luck. Xx ☺️

[NyomiMcClinton]

You have a crush on him but do you want to date him, being in a relationship with him, or fuck buddies. Im sure when you swipe him he will want to know your intentions. Swipe but dont make first contact. You want to be sure that he is interested in you also.

[writing_essays]

don't match with him. He already has 60 matches - do you think he will care if he gets 61 matches?

[Asker]

I see your point, but I really really like him and I think it's possible he likes me too. Maybe he just wanted to brag to his friend.

[JohnDoe3000]

He could be bragging, or they were 60 matches in 3 years...

[Twin2814]

do it. he seems like a really open guy and probably wants you to swipe right. just remember that if your looking for a relationship that you have to make sure he is to. dont catch feelings if he dosnt want to catch feelings

[The_awkward_bunny]

Why do you need Tinder when he's your classmate. Just go and talk to him.

If you want it to be through Tinder then well swipe right. Just do it because you like him, let him know it.

[Asker]

I know, but I just can't because I am very shy and scared of rejection..

[The_awkward_bunny]

Okay use the Tinder plan if that's more comfortable. Just have a nice intredin conversation and meet him and know him. All the best.

[JohnDoe3000]

If you swipe right and match he probably likes you, or he swiped right on every girl, you'd find out soon enough. It can make you nervous but there's nothing awkward about it.

[hannahbanana11]

If you match because you both swiped right, things should become easier, not awk because you have a common fondness of eachother

[hannahbanana11]

Thanks

[RandomBritishGuy94]

It's tinder. Swipe yes and if it's awkward claim you don't like at the pictures and only look at the ones you match with. It's what most men do anyway.

[Anonymous]

Over thinking again... Just fucking do it already...

[chrisbigman]

Why would it be awkward if you match? Isn't that what you'd want?

[Blonde401]

Surely it'd be worse if you didn't match?

[james_mark]

How about you stop wasting your thinking and time?
Just approach him and get to know him

[fatfish]

match with him trust me

[pooper89]

Well he's on there too...

[myEdenpl]

Swipe right girl.

[BeastRB]

Definitely swipe right

[LastNightmare]

do it, you'll not match on tinder.

[Anonymous]

Do it girll you got nothing to lose!!

[Anonymous]

swipe right... give it a try

[xjxssica]

yolo

[Jimmy9997]

swipe right