How can I stop being self conscious about kissing?

Anonymous
When I was dating my last boyfriend we had a really awkward first kiss. He overthought a lot of things and so he brought it up a few days later to me. I already knew it was bad, but I never brought it up cause I knew we were both really nervous. We continued dating, but for the rest of our relationship I was extremely self conscious about kissing him and it affected us.
Anyway, now I feel like I'm a horrible kisser. I met a guy while out with friends the other night and we were drinking and he kissed me. I couldn't enjoy it because I was worried I was bad.

How can I get over this fear? And what if I am actually bad? I feel like there's nothing I can do about it.
How can I stop being self conscious about kissing?
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