Do women always act different around men they find attractive?

[Anonymous]

Like how can you tell are some good at hiding it do some just not show it lol

[Maypai]

Yep! I don't ever act normal around guys I find attractive unless we REALLY get to know each other. Tell tell signs: If they girl is very hyperactive, meaning she acts crazy around this guy. That's due to hormones. If she acts rough and tough, but usually doesn't act like that. Another sign is that she's always friendly and nice in this guy's company but she isn't any other time. One of the biggest signs is if she suddenly uptains an interest in anything this guy likes.

Of course this comes down to the individual herself. Other times you can't tell unless you know her well.

[Redkovu]

Yes yes Yes. I know I go from super outgoing to very quiet and nervous! If you want to know how someone is hiding it I suggest asking a friend of hers that YOU know of so its not weird. Friends see the most honest part in another friend. A Crush will not as they will see the more brighter/attractive sides of a person. Aka ignoring the flaws - love blinding-.

[5000pts]

Its weird actually. i can think a guy is very attractive but if I dont like him I treat him the same as any other guy even if he looks godly. But if I like a guy he will seem attravtive to me more than any other guy so in that case I will act differently because I like him

[AriadneSky]

if like his personality then yeah ill feel a bit more self conscious and curious and shy and outgoing depending on the situation but if i get nothing out of his personality the no. just a guy i dont really like.

[ASEXY]

Yes, I noticed that they act differently around me than they act around ugly and plain looking guys. They are a lot nicer to me. They either get super shy/nervous or they start flirting with me. Stare at me... They try to mate guard me. They get really close and start to touch me as I back away and run away because I'm asexual and aromantic... #annoying

[AriadneSky]

Wht is mate guarding

[Soniant]

@AriadneSky was wondering too what he meant😂

[Abe90]

@Soniant I guess google can't answer that question

[Soniant]

@Abe90 hahahhaa i guess not

[Goldie710]

Ugly and plain guys... so your saying you think your very attractive?

[Soniant]

@Goldie710 lol, if he says that it dsnt necessarily mean he's arrogant. He has self esteem. And when someone flirts it kinda is ibvious :)
We need him to show us to confirm :p

[Goldie710]

@Soniant I think down playing others is kinda pathetic you can have self esteem without thinking ur the best looking person ever

[ASEXY]

mate guarding: is the process in which a member of a species attempts to prevent rival members from mating with a certain member of the same species. It means a girl would prevent other girls from mating with a certain guy. Or a guy would prevent other guys from mating with a certain girl. This could've been googled and you guys could've figured out what it meant.

I'm not really downplaying other guys... It's the truth because I'm like a 10. Most of the population is either ugly (0 to 3) or average looking (4 to 6) or somewhat attractive (7). I didn't say I think I'm the best looking person ever so I don't know where the hell you got that interpretation from? I don't think I am very good looking. I know I am very good looking. I model and I've actually had girls throw themselves at me.

[Asker]

Lol but you have no photo up you sure your a 10

[Soniant]

We want a photo 😊😎

[FemWorship]

Most DO and many times only the sophisticated see the signs (both subconscious and overtly presented by them), e. g.
slipping hair, stooping to better show cleavage, laughing at his poorer jokes, attention focus on him, defending his points of view, touching him anywhere... list too long

[DarkHumorRUs]

I dunno, but men do act different for the most part. More thinking about what they should say, trying to make themselves look funnier or cooler or whatever. Seen it all the time at work, cause there's typically a bunch of guys, some average/below average girls, and one cute girl. When that cute girl is there... It's hilarious. So much humor attempts and one-upping.

[es20490446e]

Yes, they want to talk to the guy and they smile a lot.

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[es20490446e]

That said it needs the guy to show as approachable. Otherwise they would be shy instead.

[Truthatanycost]

Maybe not always but a lot of the time. Lots of eye contact, invasion of your personal space, more touching, blushing and I find they sometimes turn conversations to a more sexual tone. They also watch to see if I am admiring other women and pay close attention to how other women react towards me.

[Goldie710]

What do you mean by ugly or plain guys? As in you believe your more attractive?

[Goldie710]

Sorry wrong reply to comment

[Truthatanycost]

@Goldie710 I know it was the wrong reply but yes, I believe I am more attractive.

[Blonde401]

I don't. I act the same around all the guys I like, I just flirt a little bit more but otherwise I'm still the same nerd who likes to make people laugh.

[troychapman]

thats nice

[jackhua]

Nerd in other words is cute and sweet!

[Blonde401]

@jackhua haha I think it's just nerdy but thanks!

[troychapman]

nothing wrong with nerdy

[Blonde401]

@troychapman some people think there is but thank you

[xKirito]

Great question! Thank you girl this has helped me out a lot because I know a girl who I like, a lot. She has a hard time taking to me and she blushes and gets extremely nervous around me.

I thought she liked me. But these answers have just reinforced that she does.

[juststrollin]

Someone I find extremely attractive I look away, in a attempt to try not to stare and concentrate on other things in the area so i dont say or do something weird (like drool lol)... really.

Someone who is attractive, I trry to smile a lot...

[annnin]

What happens if he's nice and tries to hold eye contact?

[juststrollin]

@annnin Fatality. lol in the case that he is extremely attractive I would definitely look down... I would be too nervous and I would avoid him like I am doing now actually, just because he stares and I just get too nervous... If he is verbal and not just staring at me and nice I would be really happy though. If he is attractive ish I would play along I suppose

[annnin]

How flirty and open would he have to be for you to be more talkative and to just relax around him?

[juststrollin]

@annnin I wish he would just inquire about what I do, just ask me hows school going or something like that that I can talk about and not freak out over, nothing intimmate or personal

[Anonymous]

Yes. Most women acts different around guys they finds attractive. They usually flirts, giggle, smile and talk more when they sees him. If a girl smile to you, but not to the other guys, she's probably in love with you. Staring at you and giggling every time she sees you is also a common sign.

[ChocolatePop]

I can't be myself, I get quite and super nervous. The guy would probably think I'm mad, stuck up or don't like him when in my head I'm already fucking the shit out of him 😂

[annnin]

So fantasies are a thing for girls?

And will you ever relax around him providdd he's nice and upfront?

[NeighbouringGoat]

If I find a guy good-looking, I will most likely ignore him, because good looking guys are more trouble than they're worth. Doesn't mean that I'm attracted to them, though. They're just eye-candy.

[Asker]

What do you mean more trouble lmao

[NeighbouringGoat]

Other girls would be eyeing him.
I don't want to start any conflicts, and I don't like pretty boys anyways, unless their brains are as developed as their looks.

[annnin]

So you assume a good looking guy has dozens of girls chasing after him at one time? This is a thing?

[NeighbouringGoat]

@annnin
This statement proves true in highschool, although my opinions may change later on.

[RandomBritishGuy94]

You always act differently around those you are attracted to. Men just tend not to notice when women do it.

Really women - we don't notice.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I pretend not to notice/care. What if they have a girlfriend with them? What if they get big-headed to easily? What if I end up looking like a fool, oogling at some guy whom I may never see again, responds badly, is gay, etc...

[kilowatt04]

I do the same with attractive women and feel the same about it.

[annnin]

So you assume every good looking guy has a girlfriend? Do other women?

[Metlahaed]

Cry me a river..

[wolfie12]

Aand he looks at you, thinks the same and then 50 years later you live alone with cats and he lives alone with dogs.

[Opinion Owner]

@wolfie12 Well, I guess so. And I don't like cats.

[Opinion Owner]

@kilowatt04 NOT saying that it's a good thing. It's one of my biggest faults, I wish that I knew how to approach guys.

[lyannamormont]

If i am teasing the person constantly, it means i like him. I dont do teenage stuff like blushing, or not being able to look in the eye, or giggling like idiots.

[HOAAH]

I think I do, but the way I do it is I try to not look at them or talk very short with them so that I feel like they won't find out that I actually liked them

[annnin]

When will you finally ease up and come out of your shell with the guy?

[Abe90]

You know, I never understood why some women would do this. I've found women attractive but thought they weren't attracted to me at all. Only to find out that later on that they think I'm cute or they have a crush on me. By then, it's already too late

[HOAAH]

@Abe90 I did it probably because I felt that I didn't know myself, I didn't know if I really liked him or if I just was infatuated, and I was immature. I'm with a guy now, for the last 7 1/2 years.
I never wanted to lead a guy on, when I finally felt like I wanted to make the leap to a real relationship, I went all in. I guess, maybe I wasn't ready? Maybe I had too many insecurities and I held on to them too tight? I don't know.

[Abe90]

I guess that makes sense. I use to be really shy in junior high and high school, so I was always too afraid to talk to women. So imagine feeling that way and realizing that I had to ask them out. 😱 Now I don't feel that way. So I think I can relate

[egi22]

I tend to show them when I find them attractive. Like... smiling or so. But some girls' behaviour tend to change when they are attracted to a guy.

[Asker]

What if they give no hints could they still be attracted

[egi22]

Well... good luck then!😅 Yes... some women won't show attraction. Pay attention at their body language though.

[Asker]

Lol I'm just asking to get a understanding lol

[WriterAndPainter]

No, which is probably why I never pick up on a guy hitting on me. Lol my friends will be like "you know he was into you" I'm always like "oops"

[mrsingle]

I'm like that with girls. When I'm out I go alone so now I don't have guys to help me know when a girl shows interest.

[WriterAndPainter]

@mrsingle twinsss!

[mrsingle]

@WriterAndPainter Or we found the perfect dates 😎

[Anonymous]

I get quiet and shy and nervous. I do flirt though. Try googling body language of attraction for girls. That will help you with nom verbal clues which is like 80% of communication anyways.

[annnin]

So what will girls do if they're into you or want to talk to you? Let's say

A - they're standing near you
B - they're sitting next to you
C - they're sitting in front of you or behind you

[Opinion Owner]

@annnin lots of different things. Which is why I said google body language or attraction for girls. I don't have time to type out a whole list.

[madhatters4]

i don't think we can say women "always" do anything. some will act differently some won't

[spoonman2014]

If I had a dollar for every time some girl thought I was cute then I said "Hi" to her she looked at me like she pissed herself i'd be loaded lol

[BrittBratt2416]

I think they do just a little bit Some get a little flirty, maybe shy..

[MangoMochi]

Not really. I'm pretty confident with myself most of the time.