"Settle with somebody"? Dude even if people gave you constructive advice you would work your way through the advice and just wreck it apart.
There's nothing we can tell you, there's no golden key, there's not even a leprachaun that's going to fix any of this; only you can do that.
So guess what? Not only am I a realist- I'm also a humanist. So you think girls don't like you because your looks? Get off your butt and hit the gym. Replace your older clothes (throw the old ones towards someone that can use them) etc
As for negativity? It's called "Poor me = Pour me a drink" syndrome. You are so caught up in your boo-boo's in life that you're not realising the great things either. Atleast you had the balls to approach those 2 girls; did you ever stop to think about that? Most guys aren't even that lucky.
Here's an eye opener for you- you may not think you're the most physically attractive, but how about you go volunteer at a homeless shelter and just serve them lunch. Talk with one of the biggest, smelliest, ugliest, grossest of the people there about his/her life and say nothing about your own. Just give him/her words of support. At the end of the day, go home and wash your face; then come back and tell me honestly if you would like to live their life instead of yours.
- You don't have it as bad as you think, so you have no room to be negative.
I don't mean to sound like an ass, I'm just being real with you. There's no sense for me to give you a pat answer of "ohhhh it's okay".. You're not a child, you know that, I can see that, etc etc etc.. So at this point, what are you gonna do; sit there and settle for the girl that eats boogers- or get off your ass and do the best you can to improve every day, so that some day (maybe not soon, but some day) you will get much better than you are giving yourself credit for. Sure, okay, she may not be some "super model" with a billion dollars and a lambo.. But right now look at the girl you are focusing at, she doesn't even have a beautiful personality by your own standards... Do us both a favor and get out there and give it your best swing every day.
It's gonna test your nerves/patience, but I know that you are a man that can deal with it.
~ ArtistBBoy
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uhm... 2 bitchez rejected you and there are like 20 million other bitches around who for sure 1 or 2 of them will say yes to you and find you cute. so it's all in your attitude buddy. don't look down on yourself because how will you expect others to look at you if you yourself don't find yourself attractive enough? I know this is all cliche but hey it does work and don't worry, I already crushed on 3 chubby boys and 1 of em even went homerun with me... lol. yes it could happen to you too. lol.so cheer up buddy!
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