What Girls Said 1
you may need counseling to figure this out. It can come from your family relationships, or early childhood experiences. You can change this, and the fact that you notice the problem is a great start. :)
What Guys Said 1
Ok, sounds like your a tad pessimistic to me. Don't look on what you think your not good at, think about the things youve done that your proud of. I can't comment on what you feel inadequate about because I don't know you. Just focus on the things going right in your life and eventually things will fall into place. Chin up man.