there's a guy I've had a thing for for almost a year. Since im shy i didn't talk to him at first. A few months back i started to work with him pretty often. I was still nervous but i slowly started talking.
He is really talkative with me now. And we always pick on eachother in very childish ways. I think its adorable. Except sometimes we end up doing clumsy things like bump into things or drop what we are holding.
Sometimes when we walk past eachother he smiles and looks me in the eye. Or if we talk he makes a lot of eye contact. Sometimes he won't even say anything and he will just look into my eyes. And i feel awkward and say "what?" And he just says nothing... there are times when he'll reach around me to get things and he's almost hugging me to get it.
The other day, my coworker/best friend told him she was going to take me to the movies and he said that if im going he wants to go. She asked if i would want to hang out with him. She jokingly told him no i didn't. But the next day he saw me, he asked if i was going. I said maybe. And he said "we should definitely go. It will be fun!"
What threw me off was that day, i was talking to his coworker. And there was a time before when the guy i like came over and put him on blast about having a girlfriend. So he was leaving and for some odd reason he shook everyones hand and when he came up to me i put my hand in his and he held it for like a minute while he looked me in the eyes. I laughed and said "what?" And he did a weird handshake and then he left.
He seems like a sweet guy... the only thing is that he is known to sleep around a lot. It seems like he's interested... but im afraid he only wants one thing... I've actually turned away so many people from my fear of it so im not sure if im turning away good guys. Would a player do all this?
He is really talkative with me now. And we always pick on eachother in very childish ways. I think its adorable. Except sometimes we end up doing clumsy things like bump into things or drop what we are holding.
Sometimes when we walk past eachother he smiles and looks me in the eye. Or if we talk he makes a lot of eye contact. Sometimes he won't even say anything and he will just look into my eyes. And i feel awkward and say "what?" And he just says nothing... there are times when he'll reach around me to get things and he's almost hugging me to get it.
The other day, my coworker/best friend told him she was going to take me to the movies and he said that if im going he wants to go. She asked if i would want to hang out with him. She jokingly told him no i didn't. But the next day he saw me, he asked if i was going. I said maybe. And he said "we should definitely go. It will be fun!"
What threw me off was that day, i was talking to his coworker. And there was a time before when the guy i like came over and put him on blast about having a girlfriend. So he was leaving and for some odd reason he shook everyones hand and when he came up to me i put my hand in his and he held it for like a minute while he looked me in the eyes. I laughed and said "what?" And he did a weird handshake and then he left.
He seems like a sweet guy... the only thing is that he is known to sleep around a lot. It seems like he's interested... but im afraid he only wants one thing... I've actually turned away so many people from my fear of it so im not sure if im turning away good guys. Would a player do all this?
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